jesseu2
Refugee
i thought i'd never had the need to reveal this to everyone but i feel i do.
i like this one girl, i have seen her off and on for 3 years. we used to live in the same apartment complex. then i didnt see her for awhile, just wondered where she was cuz i've always had a crush on her but am kinda shy in revealing in person cuz i hate rejection. i have never had a girlfriend ever, pics might show it here but they really dont. so i hadnt seen her in awhile, her mom comes by an tells me that she has been in a bad car wreck an hit her head so bad it broke her head open that she was holding on for her life. then i see her a couple times... go to her work n say hi an stuff..then i dont hear from her til about 2 weeks ago on match.com, i got an email from her asking if i was jese, lol, i write her back saying yes its me, an asking her how shes doing, bla bla. then she writes me back an says this...
in my life with possible dates an women, i feel like no on wants me, a guy with a disability, a speech imperament, hearing loss, etc. i've been turned down, stood up, ignored... everything, it gets me depressed to the point that i dont want to live anymore. but u2 keeps me alive, (u2) they are what keeps me going. i just feel i need to tell her how i feel cuz i might regret it for rest of my life as i do not see a chance with anybidy else on this planet. i know i am a lil shallow an picky but i think there should be some attraction between the two of u. i want to tell her something but i dont know what to say fearing rejection. i dont know what it is about me, if they all think i'm a bore or if its my disability. i get the "you'll find somebody"... i think its bullshit. i'm 26 now an never once had a connection, well i thought i did several times but turned out to be nothing.
i thought about saying this:
is it to early to say the "i have something to say..."? if not, what do i say? i really feel like a wreck now.
i will say i have/had in the past a couple crushes here on the forum but i wont reveal who.
i don't know what to do. i struggle with lots of things that most of you dont or even think about. i know i do want to be with someone an have a family an all that one day, or just have fun.
i like this one girl, i have seen her off and on for 3 years. we used to live in the same apartment complex. then i didnt see her for awhile, just wondered where she was cuz i've always had a crush on her but am kinda shy in revealing in person cuz i hate rejection. i have never had a girlfriend ever, pics might show it here but they really dont. so i hadnt seen her in awhile, her mom comes by an tells me that she has been in a bad car wreck an hit her head so bad it broke her head open that she was holding on for her life. then i see her a couple times... go to her work n say hi an stuff..then i dont hear from her til about 2 weeks ago on match.com, i got an email from her asking if i was jese, lol, i write her back saying yes its me, an asking her how shes doing, bla bla. then she writes me back an says this...
Yeah time sure does fly. Its crazy. I just graduated!! I got my degree in Psychology from Ottawa University. I just recently had laser surgery to smooth out the scar on my face. So now that I am recovered from that I need to start looking for a job. Ewwww....lol. So what have you been up to lately? Where are you living now? And one last question. Have you had any luck on this site so far? I just signed up about two weeks ago or so. I met one guy, we went out two times but I decided I dont like him. I think he wanted to get serious way too fast. And plus he was REALLY boring. I need a guy with a great sense of humor....well hope to hear from you soon!
in my life with possible dates an women, i feel like no on wants me, a guy with a disability, a speech imperament, hearing loss, etc. i've been turned down, stood up, ignored... everything, it gets me depressed to the point that i dont want to live anymore. but u2 keeps me alive, (u2) they are what keeps me going. i just feel i need to tell her how i feel cuz i might regret it for rest of my life as i do not see a chance with anybidy else on this planet. i know i am a lil shallow an picky but i think there should be some attraction between the two of u. i want to tell her something but i dont know what to say fearing rejection. i dont know what it is about me, if they all think i'm a bore or if its my disability. i get the "you'll find somebody"... i think its bullshit. i'm 26 now an never once had a connection, well i thought i did several times but turned out to be nothing.
i thought about saying this:
wow, u graduated, congrats! i graduate next may. kinda lookin forward to it yes an no... were you in Canada at Ottawa University or here in AZ? thats good u recovered, that scared me when that happened. i've been up to a lot lately, school, internship last fall, etc. 2004 was the worst year for me, remember the room mate i had in the APT? he is very hard to live with, lazy slob an his online girlfriend from accross the country who controls him, bothers me... its insane i tell u, thats all i wanna say, then i had another roomy who was so bad he thought my place was his place to do whatever he wanted. then my bike got stolen, sister sent to boarding school cuz she was screwing up, an my parents almost divorced, it was a nightmare. thats how my 2004 year went, i'm glad its over. everything much better now.
i am living next to ______ in a place i own now with a much better room mate. its nice.
i have not had any luck on here yet, couple emails but keep getting blown off after we speak on the phone, guess i just get to feeling accustomed to it.
i have something i want to say to u but don't know how to say it........
is it to early to say the "i have something to say..."? if not, what do i say? i really feel like a wreck now.
i will say i have/had in the past a couple crushes here on the forum but i wont reveal who.
i don't know what to do. i struggle with lots of things that most of you dont or even think about. i know i do want to be with someone an have a family an all that one day, or just have fun.
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