shart1780
Rock n' Roll Doggie
So about 4 months back my ex and I broke up. About a month later she found this other guy. He's extremely immature, idealistic and naive, just like her, so there's a dangerous combo going on here. They're only 19, and have only been going out for 3 months (a long distance relationship no less). Well, here comes the scary part. They want to get married.
I know I sound very judgmental right now, but I think I'm being realistic. This whole idea is just hilarious and terrifying at the same time. She's incredibly immature for her age, and he seems so too from when I talked to him. The idea is incredibly half-baked.
I'm on good terms with her now, and have talked to her off and on over the past month or so. I'm trying to convince her that getting married so suddenly isn't a very good idea, but she WILL NOT listen. She says that her and her boyfriend are creating their own dream world (I'm not kidding) and that they have already promised eachother that they'll be married. She said that no matter what she CANNOT back out because she made a promise. What's scary is that less than a month ago they were having problems and she wasn't even sure if she wanted a boyfriend at all. This relationship is NOT marriage quality. I repeat, they've been going out for THREE MONTHS.
Is there any way I can knock some sense into her?
I know I sound very judgmental right now, but I think I'm being realistic. This whole idea is just hilarious and terrifying at the same time. She's incredibly immature for her age, and he seems so too from when I talked to him. The idea is incredibly half-baked.
I'm on good terms with her now, and have talked to her off and on over the past month or so. I'm trying to convince her that getting married so suddenly isn't a very good idea, but she WILL NOT listen. She says that her and her boyfriend are creating their own dream world (I'm not kidding) and that they have already promised eachother that they'll be married. She said that no matter what she CANNOT back out because she made a promise. What's scary is that less than a month ago they were having problems and she wasn't even sure if she wanted a boyfriend at all. This relationship is NOT marriage quality. I repeat, they've been going out for THREE MONTHS.
Is there any way I can knock some sense into her?