MrPryck2U
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Ok, would you be upset if you caught or found out that your significant other was looking at porn? Or has your significant other been pissed at you for looking at porn?
I guess a quick backstory is needed. I meant my fiance 3 years ago. Before I met her, I was single for a LONG time. Anyway, over at Yahoo, they have this section thats called clubs/groups. They have groups there that post explicit photos for free. Because I'm frugal with my money, I would peruse these groups instead of going to a bonafied site and being charged or having pop-ups come up at the wrong time. I had been doing this years before I met my fiance. Now, I see my fiance about 4-5 days a week.(we don't live together yet.)Every once and a while I would stop off at Yahoo groups and "utilize" some of the photos when she WASN'T around. One night, I was reading news on the internet when she was around. Secretly, she wanted to know what I was reading, but I had nothing to hide. I was reading the bloody news. The next morning, I had to go out, so she decided to take a look at my History to see what I was indeed looking at. What she saw mortified her. She reacted very badly. I wasn't looking at anything that night, but earlier in the week(when she wasn't around) I was and that's what she saw. Now, remember, she did violate my privacy. Plus, I don't snoop around on her computer. She felt hurt and betrayed and all that stuff which I understood. But, I explained to her that I loved her and men operate differently. We had a long conversation about it and I told her everything. I deleted all of the clubs and now I no longer look at porn on the net. Unfortunately, the story isn't over. Everytime I go home from her house, she thinks I'm gonna watch porn. As a result, we're now in couples therapy because we've got to get over this bump in our relationship. Thanks for listening to my story.
I guess a quick backstory is needed. I meant my fiance 3 years ago. Before I met her, I was single for a LONG time. Anyway, over at Yahoo, they have this section thats called clubs/groups. They have groups there that post explicit photos for free. Because I'm frugal with my money, I would peruse these groups instead of going to a bonafied site and being charged or having pop-ups come up at the wrong time. I had been doing this years before I met my fiance. Now, I see my fiance about 4-5 days a week.(we don't live together yet.)Every once and a while I would stop off at Yahoo groups and "utilize" some of the photos when she WASN'T around. One night, I was reading news on the internet when she was around. Secretly, she wanted to know what I was reading, but I had nothing to hide. I was reading the bloody news. The next morning, I had to go out, so she decided to take a look at my History to see what I was indeed looking at. What she saw mortified her. She reacted very badly. I wasn't looking at anything that night, but earlier in the week(when she wasn't around) I was and that's what she saw. Now, remember, she did violate my privacy. Plus, I don't snoop around on her computer. She felt hurt and betrayed and all that stuff which I understood. But, I explained to her that I loved her and men operate differently. We had a long conversation about it and I told her everything. I deleted all of the clubs and now I no longer look at porn on the net. Unfortunately, the story isn't over. Everytime I go home from her house, she thinks I'm gonna watch porn. As a result, we're now in couples therapy because we've got to get over this bump in our relationship. Thanks for listening to my story.