Its hardly fair to jump on men for not being able to dance, its just not a guy thing. Most of the girls I know automatically equate music to dancing and if theyre at home or with their friends will just dance for the hell of it. Guys listen to music more as ambience then they do for the whole woo shake ya groove thing baby kinda aspect to it, and for the most part they see other guys that suck at dancing and go omg i do NOT want to look like that. My two cents at least.
Besides, tango and foxtrot and ballroom dancing is the way to go if youre a guy cuz hey, it looks good, it impresses people, and its not nearly as physically involved. A great deal of guys dont have nearly the flexibility that girls do, nor do they want to utilize the flexibility they do have. Again, this is to prevent from looking like an idiot. Some guys get it, some guys dont, some guys are able to dance through sheer instinct and artsy expressiony stuff, and others just try to mimic those with the artistic expressiony stuff and just look foolish cuz they do a pissass job of it. My opinion only, dont jump on me about it, cuz Im uninformed on the subject and am probably wrong, Im just speculating. Its not my fault I dont get out much... *looks back and forth nervously*