blindinglights7
The Fly
Okay I admit it... I'm a lurker... but it's finally time to post.
Now I'm apologizing in advance cuz I know this sounds like a dumb high-school-ish situation. But it probably is.
So there's this senior guy (I'm a junior) who I guess really likes me. The problem is that I don't like him that way. We do spend a lot of time together though, because we're in marching band. The thing is, he has 'asked me out' a couple of times... most recently a little over a month ago. I have told him how I feel but he just won't give it up. I'm pretty sure I was clear in explaining to him that I don't want a relationship with him. Does he just not want to accept the fact that I don't feel the same way about him? Maybe... it just makes me very uncomfortable when I'm around him... i don't want him thinking about me that way. And now apparently (some inside information) he's planning to ask me out on a 'date'. I can't just say yes cuz that would be unfair to me and him... but how do I get him to leave me alone?! I just don't know what to do anymore when he brings up 'us'. I have explained things to him but he's still trying to get me. I don't know what else to say to make him understand. Maybe I just have to wait for this to pass? But it's been going on for maybe almost a year and I'm tired of it.
Wow it felt good to get that out.
Now I'm apologizing in advance cuz I know this sounds like a dumb high-school-ish situation. But it probably is.
So there's this senior guy (I'm a junior) who I guess really likes me. The problem is that I don't like him that way. We do spend a lot of time together though, because we're in marching band. The thing is, he has 'asked me out' a couple of times... most recently a little over a month ago. I have told him how I feel but he just won't give it up. I'm pretty sure I was clear in explaining to him that I don't want a relationship with him. Does he just not want to accept the fact that I don't feel the same way about him? Maybe... it just makes me very uncomfortable when I'm around him... i don't want him thinking about me that way. And now apparently (some inside information) he's planning to ask me out on a 'date'. I can't just say yes cuz that would be unfair to me and him... but how do I get him to leave me alone?! I just don't know what to do anymore when he brings up 'us'. I have explained things to him but he's still trying to get me. I don't know what else to say to make him understand. Maybe I just have to wait for this to pass? But it's been going on for maybe almost a year and I'm tired of it.
Wow it felt good to get that out.