In my opinion and its all I have, I don't think U2 were aiming for no1's with Lemon, or Numb, or any song like that. They really had no idea knowing how AB would be accepted either. Even though electronica was big at the time in the Manchester scene etc U2 were embracing it and incorporating it into their music, it was them combining the sounds appearing at the time and forging a new sound for themselves.
I do appreciate people have preferences over certain decades of U2, but if we are referring to quality of output the 80's and 90's U2 wins by a landslide over their 00's output. Although they probably have a couple of albums left in them to prove me wrong I fear Bono's diminished vocal ability will severely hamper the songs, he sadly doesn't have that soaring vocal ability anymore.
Tell me the band was being honest with themselves (and us) with Discotheque, Daddy's Gonna Pay For Your Crashed Car, Babyface, The Playboy Mansion, Miami & Do You Feel Loved.
Actually apart from maybe Discotheque I think thats the band at its most honest. The Zooropa songs in particular are 'Of the moment songs', capturing a mood and a feeling in the band at the time, you can't be more honest that that.
In regards to your personal connection with Yahweh, Crumbs, Sometimes and OOTS I can understand how you can interpret those songs to your experience. To me these songs sound like U2 put their entire catalog into a supercomputer and it spurted out the next 2 albums, manufactured and lacking that honesty I talked about earlier. To me a song like Lemon, or MOFO shows me more emotion to a lost parent than Sometimes ever will, despite its obvious intention.
I'm not saying the songs or the albums are bad. Yes Beautiful Day is a great song, Walk On and Kite are pretty good but are about as interesting as Staring At The Sun. To me they are filler songs, yes they are good, but not really memorable.
And just out of curiousity, and not for arguments sake, you'll have to point out the hint to me of AB in Rattle & Hum.
God Part II, in particular the guitar work would be the best example of a lead in into AB.
Anyways, all of the above is strictly my opinion, and its obvious it differs from what you guys think. I think maybe apart from the music maybe its the attitude of the band that I miss. I preferred Bono when he's in your face and direct rather than his round about way of getting his message across these days.