Men are confusing. Men with autism are even more confusing.
Had class with him yesterday but before that I was playing mariokart in the chem students' loungeroom. Got poked as a greeting, as he always does. Whole day he acted just as he always does and poked few times here and there. he checked out the U2 keychains on my bag(always has an eye for detail, a while ago he held my hands asking about my rings). Then in the evening he had an exam and I had two meetings, then there was movie night at the lounge room. After my meetings I went there, caught the last bit of the movie with popcorn and beer. He came in after, some people left but the rest stayed to watch the rest of the movie. The others had stood up at that moment, so I was the only one sitting on the couch(two couches next to each other). yeah you guess it, he sat right next to me. during the movie there was more poking, a bit of playful wrestling(yea I'm a tomboy
) and popcorn sharing. We walked to the train together afterwards, sat a while on a bench talking about movies and the gamenight I'm having in May. The only weird thing was that he didn't give me a hug. Last two times we went to the trains together he did, though he was quite inebriated at those events so that might explain that.
Today he was his usual self as well. So now I just really do not know wtf is going on anymore. I do believe that he has no idea what he basically told me, or at least how anyone else would interpret what he said. I guess that's what he meant with that he can't really talk through msn and stuff like that, cause he can't convey his emotions.
Guess I'm back at square one with this. Either I wait till may, when I have that game night thing, it'll be the first chance to get him drunkish(I know it sounds really bad but I'm not trying to take advantage
Just loosen him up is enough). It doesn't help that I'm leaving for a 12 day study trip to denmark and sweden this sunday!
Long story short. I'm going to ask a mutual friend who's like a sister to him for help. Perhaps she can figure it out while I'm gone.
Thanks for the sweet words everyone, you know who you are.
I'm really glad I got you guys as friends. And Amy, that hug is deffo gonna happen!