Lila64
Blue Crack Distributor
Sorry you are having a rough time right now I don't think it's the best time to make life-altering decisions (like what martha said about going to war). As for waiting 3 weeks to get into therapy, have you checked any local colleges? I know my friend who is a psychologist would see clients while she was in school, and it was a reduced rate if I remember correctly. Might be worth looking into.
And I'm sure your parents mean well, but I can totally understand how what they are doing could drive you nuts. I think the advice you got about limiting what information you tell them was very good. It's none of their business how much money you earn, etc. You are a grown man! It sounds like you can make major purchases on your own as well. Damn salespeople ruin it for browsers sometimes You'll get your bed when the time is right. Doesn't sound like there's an urgency, and with the holidays coming, there sales galore for the next 4-8 weeks. And January is usually the semi-annual mattress sale time, if I recall correctly. Just watch the papers.
I know my mother-in-law, who means well, still says things which drive me crazy. Like telling my husband how to do something or asking if he's ever cooked a certain dish or whatever (something basic). He's 51 frickin' years old. I think he knows how to cook us a meal and do laundry, etc.
I don't have much else advice wise to give you, but am here to listen (read) whenever you need to vent.
And I'm sure your parents mean well, but I can totally understand how what they are doing could drive you nuts. I think the advice you got about limiting what information you tell them was very good. It's none of their business how much money you earn, etc. You are a grown man! It sounds like you can make major purchases on your own as well. Damn salespeople ruin it for browsers sometimes You'll get your bed when the time is right. Doesn't sound like there's an urgency, and with the holidays coming, there sales galore for the next 4-8 weeks. And January is usually the semi-annual mattress sale time, if I recall correctly. Just watch the papers.
I know my mother-in-law, who means well, still says things which drive me crazy. Like telling my husband how to do something or asking if he's ever cooked a certain dish or whatever (something basic). He's 51 frickin' years old. I think he knows how to cook us a meal and do laundry, etc.
I don't have much else advice wise to give you, but am here to listen (read) whenever you need to vent.