absintheminded
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- Nov 17, 2006
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Help, I'm pregnant, I know I'm 30 and I have a stable job and my financial status is not in danger. I have all my bills up to date, I don't smoke or drink or do drugs, and it seems like a perfect time to have a baby, and my family is supportive.
the only problem is is that the baby is the spawn of a married man of whom I've been having an affair with for the past EIGHT years. We love each other but he is totally committed to his wife, they already have one child and he would like more, but she is too old for more children. I seriously doubt he would leave his wife and child for me and the new baby. But I'm against abortion in silly matters like this, especially since I can give the child a wonderful home and a wonderful childhood. Although, I've grown up without a father myself and I know what a huge absence it is and I hurt for a father even now. I don't want to starve my child of a father.
What should I do?
the only problem is is that the baby is the spawn of a married man of whom I've been having an affair with for the past EIGHT years. We love each other but he is totally committed to his wife, they already have one child and he would like more, but she is too old for more children. I seriously doubt he would leave his wife and child for me and the new baby. But I'm against abortion in silly matters like this, especially since I can give the child a wonderful home and a wonderful childhood. Although, I've grown up without a father myself and I know what a huge absence it is and I hurt for a father even now. I don't want to starve my child of a father.
What should I do?