greeneyedgirl
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Dazz
greeneyedgirl said:D
I'm not happy about the fact that I don't really have a mom.
Luckily, Mr GG's mom is a wonderful woman who treats me like the daughter she always wanted. She has filled the gap since I was 15.
bonoishot said:
greeneyedgirl said:Luckily, Mr GG's mom is a wonderful woman who treats me like the daughter she always wanted. She has filled the gap since I was 15.
I hope you both use this experience to make yourselves strong women like I did. I'm not saying hate you parents, though.
I'm just saying that stages like this in your life make you who you are in the future. I hope you make the right choices.
dazzledbylight said:
I'd glad you have found a kind of loving "stepmom".....
WildHoney said:
We'll have to find something to entertain us as we'll have no PLEBA .......
U2MaNaIcWeIdO said:Awww GG
My Mom has always been sick...has been since the day I was born
greeneyedgirl said:
Hehehe, she is so sweet.
She had to sit us both down 4 days before our wedding to talk to us about sex, birthcontrol, condoms, lubricants
We had no clue
She knew that my mom didn't tell me a thing.
greeneyedgirl said:
*gets out her fancy cane, puts on her black fishnet stockings and satin top hat and starts singing "Let me....entertain you......."*
dazzledbylight said:Extra :hug :s to you all esp with either parent problems of the {whichever kind of} abusiveness kind.
My dad started to really become emotionally abusive after his 2nd depression, though he had been occasioanly when i was very young as well.
Even though he went to therapy several times- he never told any therapist except the last one that BOTH of his parents were severe alcoholics!! :yikes :
Who knows what stuff he went through, never got clear up/concious of to start to diminish effects etc
After his last major depression in 90's he got even worst and has threatened to hit me several times.....which I managed to talk him out of it.....
But again also more demanding nasty etc.....He just was not often good to be around any more and he drove people away.
I'd visit him in the nursing home and at least occasionally it would be a nice visit.
After he had his major stroke {? 3 yrs ago} he lost almost all his nastiness, but also a lot of the good quailites....it's I think alot tied up with quite serious short term memory problems.
SO for past 3 yrs he's usually on the quiiter side , and quite sweet {which he also used to be before the nastier emotioned reigned}.
So he's gotten more hugs & kisses from me in the past 3 yrs than the previous 20! He still retains a pretty good amount of cogency that gets messed up because of how quickly his memory blinks out.... every 4 - 1 min.
dazzledbylight said:
oh boy that's kind of eVen worse that me, Weldy! :HUG:
She got sick when i was 4 1/2 . I have as far as i can tell only one image {which I don't really know is real or a dream I had say at 5 yr old remembering back to my even earlier yrs ....standing up in a crib, looking around my room.
So my memories are around from 4 on. My sister was born when i was 4 1/4. And before i was 5, my Mom had come down with asthma a bad case when I'd often watch her half choking/weezing several time a day even!
This wnet on for close to 13 yrs before new meds drastically cut her aTTACKS DOWN {THANK THE POWERS AND SCINCE!}!
WildHoney said:
We'll have to find something to entertain us as we'll have no PLEBA .......
bonoishot said:
we'll try find a net cafe while were away (and at heathrow airport in london) so we can talk to you all
greeneyedgirl said:Russty, we got a brown paper bag too!!!
bonoishot said:
Dazz
sorry about all that, your dad when you were younger and his stroke unfortunatley it sounds like he went through alot even though that would never excuse the way he treated you
my dad hever nit me, but he used to hit my mum when i was around and he just upset me emotionally, the way he treated me when i he left and funnliy enough when i was like 5 i was a real daddys girl according to my mums mum
WildHoney said:Ahh girls i'm sorry about all your parent problems
I'm so lucky, mine are still together and we get on fine, although my dad can be hard work at times. He actually mellowed out since Jamie was born
greeneyedgirl said:
She once busted her stiches after surgery and I had to help her stop the bleeding until the paramedics got there. Think I was 8.
dazzledbylight said:
oh boy that's kind of eVen worse that me, Weldy! :HUG:
She got sick when i was 4 1/2 . I have as far as i can tell only one image {which I don't really know is real or a dream I had say at 5 yr old remembering back to my even earlier yrs ....standing up in a crib, looking around my room.
So my memories are around from 4 on. My sister was born when i was 4 1/4. And before i was 5, my Mom had come down with asthma a bad case when I'd often watch her half choking/weezing several time a day even!
This wnet on for close to 13 yrs before new meds drastically cut her aTTACKS DOWN {THANK THE POWERS AND SCINCE!}!