indra said:
No one should get away with crap because he or she is friends with a mod or an admin. NO ONE. And a good mod, a good admin, doesn't allow friendship to get in the way of his or job here.
Sicy, I'm proud that you did what you needed to do even though you are catching hell for it from some. Your friend never should have put you in that position in the first place. But you handled it in a way which caused very little disruption for the vast majority of the board, and I thank you. That's your job here and you do it well.
(sorry for the off topic post, but I had to respond to that bull. I'll go back to just celebrate bannings now. )
hi, indra.
sicy and mk and i have already worked this out in private.
you see, some of us have an actual real history behind these blue screens. sometimes we disagree. sometimes sicy is put in positions that i'm sure really must suck for her, because i know that it must be pretty shitty to have to mod and control a place where you also know, and genuinely like, some of the posters on a "real life" personal basis.
this situation was tough. i can disagree with an action taken and still respect, and even care about, the person who took action. it isn't an impossible thing to do. it takes a bit of willpower, and a lot of maturity, but it can be done.
i'd also like to add that we ALL handled it in a way that caused very little disruption. this has been going on for days and neither mk, nor i, wanted to post about it. in fact, mk went as far as to ask a couple of people she's close to not mention it on the boards even though they were very much aware of it.
the very second sicy ask that this be moved to private, i complied. why you're drudging it back up, indra, and why you feel the need to call something that has nothing to do with you "bull", i have no idea.
i'd also like to clarify that neither one of us ever had issue with the initial banning itself. i completely get that sicy had no choice in that. for all she knew, mk was going to go for a thousand entries. for me, it was what went on afterwards that i disagreed with and have been referring to throughout my posts.
for the record, mk's ban has been lifted.
however, we both feel that a little break is in order because quite frankly, neither one of us prefers the drama of being in the spotlight, so to speak.
sicy, again, i personally thank you.
i know you and i can be like two bulls when it comes to butting heads and i know i can be a real pain in your ass sometimes.
i don't mean to be.
much love, guys.
peace.