LarryMullen's POPAngel
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Yeah, they're the friends I used to work with on my old floor. One of them actually met her husband at work, so...
Miroslava said:Ok, so we agree to meet at Double Olive for Martinis... but let's just say that I cant meet you til oh, say 6:30... A couple days in advance you could always just say something to him like "oh, I am meeting my friend for drinks after work on whatever day, but she can't meet me until 6:30... that is of course not worth it for me to go home, but I also dont want to sit at the bar by myself for over an hour either... *bohoo* I don't know what to do... *boohoo* You should come and keep me company while I wait..."
If things are going SUPER well, then you call me and ask me to call you claiming i cant show up...
If things are going so-so I show up and we try to talk him into staying
Dooooooooooooo it
Miroslava said:Ok, so we agree to meet at Double Olive for Martinis... but let's just say that I cant meet you til oh, say 6:30... A couple days in advance you could always just say something to him like "oh, I am meeting my friend for drinks after work on whatever day, but she can't meet me until 6:30... that is of course not worth it for me to go home, but I also dont want to sit at the bar by myself for over an hour either... *bohoo* I don't know what to do... *boohoo* You should come and keep me company while I wait..."
If things are going SUPER well, then you call me and ask me to call you claiming i cant show up...
If things are going so-so I show up and we try to talk him into staying
Dooooooooooooo it
Blue Room said:
Talk about a set up!
Miro do you live in Michigan or something or are you calling and doing this long distance? WOW
Miroslava said:
April and I live about 30 mins from each other...
Blue Room said:
Ah, that explains it! Michigan girls!
Miroslava said:
Being that you're in Michigan I hope you mean that in the nicest way
Miroslava said:
Being that you're in Michigan I hope you mean that in the nicest way
I guess I'm an official Michigander now since I have lived here the majority of my life
And seriously April, are we going to have to go to thread 2 without any progress?
Miroslava said:Ha Ha! I smell a brain storming session for Big Daddy signs!
I think this is the best suggestion you're going to get from clueless me (been single since 1999 ) so I suggest you take it!
LarryMullen's_POPAngel said:I've got to start really talking to him again and going to his cube for casual conversation when neither of us are busy, so that it's not like I'm acting all weird or "crushy", you know? Ease back into "normalcy" so that I'm in the forefront or close to it when things settle down a bit for him.
lady luck said:I know it's going to be hard, but I have the impression you should give him the time to settle things in his new house
I will move away in a couple of month and I am already tired at the idea of all the things I'll have to do!!
His brain is full of stuff, boxes, things he's losing while moving...
But I am sure there's a corner is keeping free just for you