Ali Rose
New Yorker
OK here I am up at 4:30 am restless...I come to you fellow Christians who have had/are in Christian relationships/marriages. I kid you not I met this great guy just last Sunday when i finally guts up and went to the pre-service singles group...Not exactly intending for this to happen, we sort of latched on to each other right away...we've been out 3 times this week INcluding bible studys, dinner, movie, Worship services, etc.
We have alot in common though there is TONS more we need to know about each other, we got into a pretty deep discussion about relationships last night and it eventually led to the topic of us dating...
I told him he had definately peaked my interest but I thought we still needed to get to know each other alot more. I said I really want to take this slow and be SURE before i jump into anything...and I think we need to do lots of praying and give this lots more time, which he was totally ok with
I'd just really like to know what some of you may have gone through before knowing if you were right for each other, and maybe what steps you took to be sure, I'm really very new to Christian "relationships" and i SOOO wanna do it right and be SURE and not hurt anybody, though he has definately been permiating my thoughts more and more every day.
Perhaps I'll try to get some sleep now and maybe give more details later, but any help on this matter would be appreciated. Thanks for listening! Hope you can help!!!
We have alot in common though there is TONS more we need to know about each other, we got into a pretty deep discussion about relationships last night and it eventually led to the topic of us dating...
I told him he had definately peaked my interest but I thought we still needed to get to know each other alot more. I said I really want to take this slow and be SURE before i jump into anything...and I think we need to do lots of praying and give this lots more time, which he was totally ok with
I'd just really like to know what some of you may have gone through before knowing if you were right for each other, and maybe what steps you took to be sure, I'm really very new to Christian "relationships" and i SOOO wanna do it right and be SURE and not hurt anybody, though he has definately been permiating my thoughts more and more every day.
Perhaps I'll try to get some sleep now and maybe give more details later, but any help on this matter would be appreciated. Thanks for listening! Hope you can help!!!