She showed up on my Yahoo Messenger today.
We started talking, and from one thing to another we started talking about sex. She said she wants a boyfriend i got shocked cuz she's 15(seems like a very small age to me), and teling her that when i was 15 i didn't even dream of a girl, she later told me she had sex(!!!), just once.
So i started throwing stuff at her, calling her naive (opposed to my head screaming "freaking stupid"), while she was telling me she did it with a guy she hooked up with 6(!!!!) months ago, because it was the only way to keep him ny her side (how many girls still fall for this shit???).
I really tried to tell her to enjoy her youth and live like she has no care in the world, but she kept saying she wants a boyfriend and to be loved and stuff.
I think she started crying and felt really depressed but i do hope i made something clear.I can't stand pre-teen kids having sex just because they wanna try it, or because the friends say "comme on it's good".
What are the parents doing? Is it really that hard to tell your kids that sex is great but it should be done when you really feel up for it?
I hope i don't sound old-fashioned.I'm quite ok with modernity but the thought of kids having sex makes me puke.
I hope to have a daughter one day, and i really hope i can make her talk to me honestly, and not withold these things because i'm the father.
Still a bit messed up over that kid.
We started talking, and from one thing to another we started talking about sex. She said she wants a boyfriend i got shocked cuz she's 15(seems like a very small age to me), and teling her that when i was 15 i didn't even dream of a girl, she later told me she had sex(!!!), just once.
So i started throwing stuff at her, calling her naive (opposed to my head screaming "freaking stupid"), while she was telling me she did it with a guy she hooked up with 6(!!!!) months ago, because it was the only way to keep him ny her side (how many girls still fall for this shit???).
I really tried to tell her to enjoy her youth and live like she has no care in the world, but she kept saying she wants a boyfriend and to be loved and stuff.
I think she started crying and felt really depressed but i do hope i made something clear.I can't stand pre-teen kids having sex just because they wanna try it, or because the friends say "comme on it's good".
What are the parents doing? Is it really that hard to tell your kids that sex is great but it should be done when you really feel up for it?
I hope i don't sound old-fashioned.I'm quite ok with modernity but the thought of kids having sex makes me puke.
I hope to have a daughter one day, and i really hope i can make her talk to me honestly, and not withold these things because i'm the father.
Still a bit messed up over that kid.