Lovey Dovey
The Fly
I was just wondering what everyones opinions are on the gossip that goes around Interference.
I mean, making positive or neutral comments about people around here is one thing, constructive criticism is too, but what about bashing,etc?
If someone makes negative comments to you about someone youve never spoken to, or seldom spoken to, do you believe them? What if the person spreading the rumors is a good friend of yours, that youve come to trust?
Do you take their word for it, remain neutral, or tell them its making you uncomfortable and to please stop? Or even report them?
IMO, if all youve ever done is read the posts of the someone being spoken of, and youve maybe only encountered them briefly in chat and have never taken the time to actually get to know them, then you really shouldnt believe what you hear - NO MATTER WHO'S DOING THE RUMOR SPREADING!
Personally, I dont like to spread cruel thoughts except maybe torwards those who have backstabbed me first.
And if I hear negative remarks about someone, I try to get to know the person better, and find out the truth for myself.
If I'm the victim of gossip, I invite questions and comments from others in order to get the truth out there. I have nothing to hide...
Ok, thats my !
I mean, making positive or neutral comments about people around here is one thing, constructive criticism is too, but what about bashing,etc?
If someone makes negative comments to you about someone youve never spoken to, or seldom spoken to, do you believe them? What if the person spreading the rumors is a good friend of yours, that youve come to trust?
Do you take their word for it, remain neutral, or tell them its making you uncomfortable and to please stop? Or even report them?
IMO, if all youve ever done is read the posts of the someone being spoken of, and youve maybe only encountered them briefly in chat and have never taken the time to actually get to know them, then you really shouldnt believe what you hear - NO MATTER WHO'S DOING THE RUMOR SPREADING!
Personally, I dont like to spread cruel thoughts except maybe torwards those who have backstabbed me first.
And if I hear negative remarks about someone, I try to get to know the person better, and find out the truth for myself.
If I'm the victim of gossip, I invite questions and comments from others in order to get the truth out there. I have nothing to hide...
Ok, thats my !
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