Okay, I post this knowing full well the lamasting I will get so I won't bother to complain about it.I did wait awhile out of sensitivity and compassion for your loss. But I would really, really like to know the answer to something that's been perplexing me for quite some time. How is it that a person who is so fervently in favor of abortion can have tender feelings for an unformed embryo when it dies as long as someone 'chose' to keep it alive, yet if she had 'chosen' to abort it, you'd have called it a nameless, faceless blob of tissue? You're talking about it like it was a person who never got a chance to live and be known, and it was. But so are all the babies who are aborted. Just because they are unwanted and unloved doesn't make them any less human or any less a person with potential than your niece or nephew was. Instead of a bunch of snotty comments from BVS, Deep, Diemen, and others, I really do hope you can address this seriously and professionally. Is there even an answer? Thank you for any consideration you can give this topic.