nbcrusader said:
Yes, I am very lucky.
I guess all I'm saying is there is a "do this, do that" aspect to the relationship, but I find that love means wanting to do these things (even before being asked).
wow, nbcrusader, you are not only lucky, but you seem to know what you are talking about. And I'm glad, because that's sort of how I feel about things, so hopefully I can say what you have said one day.
But I'm just a kid, I guess.
Earthshell - as odd as it seems, remember that there are a lot of kinds of people in the world. There are others like you who want to be in a good give and take relationships, all you need to do is find her.
Make sure you look in the right places, because, I know someone who spends all his days looking for one kind of person in the exact opposite place where that kind of person would be, and then he wonders why he is never happy.
I guess I don't have much advice, but, try to find a good "hunting ground", and make sure you express and communicate your goals as far as the relationship is concerned.
Do you want something informal, or long term, or something else?
There are a lot of different people around this place. But really........
as far as I am concerned, sometimes what you want isn't availible where you are, and you have to go and get it somewhere else. Or perhaps, wait, and then go and get it..............