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Old 06-24-2010, 11:43 AM   #286
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It does not, as the cliche goes, "explore all sides of an issue," but instead offers an intimate and affecting portrait of what happens when partners in a same-sex marriage set out to secure for themselves a blessed event, the limits of biology notwithstanding.


we have this set to record.

what, pray tell, would be the various "other sides" of this "issue"?
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You do have to wonder: Could an opponent of same-sex marriage, or even a homophobic extremist, watch the documentary, see Gary and Tony in paternal bliss with their child, and still want to deny them this happiness -- even deny them the right to cohabit? Or, for that matter, to hop into the same sack?
Anyone who does, I'd just have to imagine that they're cruel, miserable people who clearly don't have happiness in their lives and therefore want to try and deny other people happiness as a result. I don't know how else I could explain somebody doing something that mean.

Sadly, I'm at a friend's place right now and she doesn't have CNN here, so I can't see this (unless they put their documentaries up online, in which case I'll check it out there). I wish Gary and Tony the best of luck with everything in their lives-being fathers, their marriage, and fighting for equal rights.

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i know, i know ... a right-wing homophobe revealed as a self-loathing homsexual is hardly news. in fact, we sort of expect it. homophobia is totally gay. but when i read something like this, when you read about people who have every incentive possible to not be gay, who likely genuinely struggle and go through hell over this, doesn't the apparently Herculean task of *not* being gay when you are gay absolutely eviscerate any notions that sexual orientation is somehow chosen or voluntary or that it's just behavior? these poor, pathetic people who need a hug (and to stop hurting people) can't even stay on the wagon.


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Conservative Minneapolis Pastor Reported To Attend Same-sex Support Group Likely Will Keep Job

(AP) MINNEAPOLIS (AP) - A Lutheran pastor ardently critical of allowing gays into the clergy is on leave from his Minneapolis church after a gay magazine reported his attendance at a support group for men struggling with same-sex attraction.

Church officials, however, said Wednesday that the Rev. Tom Brock likely will return to the pulpit at Hope Lutheran Church because he acted in accordance with his faith by attending the group.

A fixture on local cable access shows, Brock regularly broadcasts conservative views on homosexuality and criticizes the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America for liberalizing its gay clergy policy. Lavender Magazine published a story last week about Brock's quiet attendance of the Faith in Action meetings, written by a reporter who falsely posed as a member of the group.

"The fact that he said one thing publicly, and privately he's a homosexual - that's somewhat inconsistent," said Lavender president Stephen Rocheford. "This company has a policy not to out people. The one exception is a public figure who says one thing and does another."

The Lavender article never explicitly said Brock confessed to homosexual activity. It quotes him at one point talking about a recent mission trip to Eastern Europe, of which he says, "I fell into temptation. I was weak."

Hope Lutheran's executive pastor, the Rev. Tom Parrish, said when confronted with the article, Brock "simply said he indeed has been attending this Christian group, both going there and being honest about temptations he has, and is being held accountable so he never would do anything with that temptation."

Parrish said Brock was put on leave from the job of senior pastor at Hope Lutheran when the article came out, but likely will return after an internal investigation.

"What they've done is unconscionable," Parrish said of Lavender's covert infiltration of Faith in Action. The group is the Minnesota affiliate of the Catholic Church's Courage program, described on its website as a "spiritual support system which would assist men and women with same-sex attractions in living chaste lives in fellowship, truth and love."

Brock, who has an unlisted phone number, did not respond to several interview requests made through Parrish.

Lavender is a twice-monthly free magazine Rocheford co-founded in 1995. The article was written by John Townsend, a freelance writer, who does not include details of how he gained access to the group except to say he went through a preliminary interview with its administrator, the Rev. James Livingston. Townsend did not reveal if he actively participated at meetings he attended or simply listened.

Livingston said Townsend gave an alias and attended meetings in Minneapolis over two months this spring.

"I think anybody who appreciates confidential support groups would just be aghast at what they did," Livingston said. "It's one thing to be opposed politically to someone; it's another thing to worm your way into a group like that and expose the secrets of the group."

Rocheford said he did not think it uncommon for media organizations to send reporters undercover to obtain secret information. But Kelly McBride, an expert in journalism ethics at St. Petersburg, Florida's Poynter Institute, said she found Lavender's approach "troubling."

"It's kind of like being a spy," McBride said. "For most groups that deal with something where members of the group find it shameful, there's a strong presumption of confidentiality."

The article graced Lavender's cover, with a large picture of Brock in his vestments over the title, "Antigay Lutheran Pastor Protests Too Much."

Last summer, leaders of the ELCA met in Minneapolis for a national convention where they voted to let individual churches hire noncelibate gay people as clergy as long as they are in committed relationships. In a TV broadcast, Brock called it a "grievous week" and mentioned that a tornado struck the convention hall where the Lutherans were meeting right as they were preparing to vote.[/B]

"Every time the Bible mentions homosexual behavior, it condemns it," Brock said in the broadcast. "It never adds, it's OK if you love each other."

Hope Lutheran officially left the ELCA last year, joining instead the Association of Free Lutheran Congregations.

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I was at the opera last night, and, it being LA and all, there were several gay couples there. I was listening to two guys talking about getting sushi as they went up on the escalator, and then I was people-watching while I ate a pre-opera snack.

My thought was: "REALLY? These people are the threat to Western Civilization as we know it? A couple of guys who lovingly fuss over each other's clothes, get sushi before the opera, talk about the car repair bill, and look at each other with mushy looks? THAT's the big deal?"




I wish my world were so small that it was threatened only by that.
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did you go to the Chandler Pavilion ?

I went to the Ahmason, last week ans saw South Pacific

I still need to go to the new Disney Hall.
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Yes, LA Opera is at the Chandler. The Disney Hall is stunning, but the new Segerstrom Hall is more beautiful.

I wanted to see South Pacific, but I just won't be able to. I really liked Mary Poppins, though.
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I was at the opera last night, and, it being LA and all, there were several gay couples there. I was listening to two guys talking about getting sushi as they went up on the escalator, and then I was people-watching while I ate a pre-opera snack.

My thought was: "REALLY? These people are the threat to Western Civilization as we know it? A couple of guys who lovingly fuss over each other's clothes, get sushi before the opera, talk about the car repair bill, and look at each other with mushy looks? THAT's the big deal?"




I wish my world were so small that it was threatened only by that.
Amen to that. Like I've said before, there have been many things, personal and non-personal, that I've lay awake thinking about and worrying about at night in recent years. Things that have kept me tossing and turning and scared me. Gay people getting married never registers on that list.

But that's what people have a tendency to do in this world. When life is getting too uncontrollable and scary for them, they turn their attention to something that isn't a big deal and make it so, to divert themselves from the real problems that they either can't or won't fix or face.

My parents raised me to treat people with the same respect and decency that I would want to be treated with. I'd absolutely hate it if someone told me I couldn't marry who I loved without giving me any justifiable reason as to why, went so far as to outlaw my right to choose who I want to be happy with, so I refuse to do that to anyone else. All I ask is that people in this world are healthy and happy and safe and loved. If we've got that, we're good.

Irvine, again, excellent questions that I would love to hear an answer from the anti-gay crowd to. I just wonder how many more times we have to hear these stories before everyone finally catches on?

And seriously, is there a checklist of required statements that everybody who gets caught in these scenarios must go through when they finally comment on their situation? This...

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...is exactly what Ted Haggard said as well (and don't even get me started on his pathetic "tour of repentance" where he goes around speaking to people about how to avoid "falling into the same sin he did" and all that BS). On the one hand I feel bad for these people because they clearly need to get past their insecurities and embrace the feelings they've been shamed into repressing, but on the other hand, these people still make me incredibly angry, because of the damage they're doing to other people. You've got your issues with your sexuality, that's your problem to deal with and I hope you sort said issues out, but don't try and make everyone else feel ashamed as well.

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Yes, LA Opera is at the Chandler. The Disney Hall is stunning, but the new Segerstrom Hall is more beautiful.

I wanted to see South Pacific, but I just won't be able to. I really liked Mary Poppins, though.
I've been to the Segerstrom

I've got 8th row center, season tickets at the Ahmason, 22 years now.

I've seen some amazing stuff and some mediocre stuff over the years.

I missed Mary Poppins, tickets are still on my fridge, I forgot
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I was at the opera last night, and, it being LA and all, there were several gay couples there. I was listening to two guys talking about getting sushi as they went up on the escalator, and then I was people-watching while I ate a pre-opera snack.

My thought was: "REALLY? These people are the threat to Western Civilization as we know it? A couple of guys who lovingly fuss over each other's clothes, get sushi before the opera, talk about the car repair bill, and look at each other with mushy looks? THAT's the big deal?"


really? you didn't look at these men and see blow jobs and anal sex with many anonymous partners?

(and that didn't turn you on in a deep, dark place and you had to go run and pray?)
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really? you didn't look at these men and see blow jobs and anal sex with many anonymous partners?

(and that didn't turn you on in a deep, dark place and you had to go run and pray?)

I'm just fucked up that way. What can I say.
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I missed Mary Poppins, tickets are still on my fridge, I forgot


It was really fun.
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I was too distracted.

I got hit with an IRS audit, the day before.
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Ouch. Sorry to hear that .

I've never been to an opera. Been to a Broadway play, but not an opera. Wouldn't mind checking one out sometime.

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I was too distracted.

I got hit with an IRS audit, the day before.
That would be distracting.
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