Wake me up when september ends... Describe!
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bonojr62
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<has a party to get ready for... 
{paintedroses}
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^ going partying 
hey susan
hey susan
RedRocksU2
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< waiting for PR next Avatar............(Probably)
{paintedroses}
New Yorker
< has no new avator ideas 
Sevikins
Refugee
^Has a lovely avatar.
People shouldn't change their avatars too much lol. I've grown accustomed to recoginizing the posters by their avatars.
People shouldn't change their avatars too much lol. I've grown accustomed to recoginizing the posters by their avatars.
RedRocksU2
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^ Actually....me too.
redkat
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^should know I'll be there too
making sure things don't get too wild
making sure things don't get too wild
VertigoGal
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
hello
<is very stressed out because the guy I *thought* I liked asked me to homecoming. but now he's acting all stalkerish and making me really uncomfortable. I used to like him as a friend, and for a few days I thought Id want to go out with him, but I dont, and now he's just plain annoying me...he waits for me after half my classes and tries to tickle me 24/7. Now Im dreading homecoming, because I said I'd go with him, because I felt bad saying no, but I made it clear we were just going as friends. But some of my friends talk to him online and he's like obsessed with me. So so bad.
what should I do?
<is very stressed out because the guy I *thought* I liked asked me to homecoming. but now he's acting all stalkerish and making me really uncomfortable. I used to like him as a friend, and for a few days I thought Id want to go out with him, but I dont, and now he's just plain annoying me...he waits for me after half my classes and tries to tickle me 24/7. Now Im dreading homecoming, because I said I'd go with him, because I felt bad saying no, but I made it clear we were just going as friends. But some of my friends talk to him online and he's like obsessed with me. So so bad.
what should I do?
redkat
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VG 
you need to have a real conversation with him and explain things. Do it in a nice way but tell him the things that make you feel uncomfortable! He needs to know that he's making you uncomfortable
You should probably do it in person without distractions to make sure that it's really settled. Hopefully things will get straightened and you could enjoy homecoming with him.
If you don't see that happening then include that in your conversation. Just tell him you don't think it's a good idea since you don't feel that way about him.
you need to have a real conversation with him and explain things. Do it in a nice way but tell him the things that make you feel uncomfortable! He needs to know that he's making you uncomfortable
You should probably do it in person without distractions to make sure that it's really settled. Hopefully things will get straightened and you could enjoy homecoming with him.
If you don't see that happening then include that in your conversation. Just tell him you don't think it's a good idea since you don't feel that way about him.
VertigoGal
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
thanks for the advice.
I know I should do the things you said and just talk to him. But when he's not stalking me (which only started this week), he's a really cool guy and I've been friends with him for a few years and I don't want to lose him as a friend. I almost just want to have my friends (who are also friends with him and agree he's being really creepy) hint to him that I don't like him. But that's really dumb and immature and very high school. Although I am in high school after all.
Maybe I will grow up and follow your advice though.
I know I should do the things you said and just talk to him. But when he's not stalking me (which only started this week), he's a really cool guy and I've been friends with him for a few years and I don't want to lose him as a friend. I almost just want to have my friends (who are also friends with him and agree he's being really creepy) hint to him that I don't like him. But that's really dumb and immature and very high school. Although I am in high school after all.
Maybe I will grow up and follow your advice though.
redkat
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VG I could see that working. Just make sure it's the right person telling him the right things. That's certainly how we did everything in high school
Also a less intimidating way to talk to him seriously would be online chat.
Also a less intimidating way to talk to him seriously would be online chat.
VertigoGal
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
right...I dunno, it might not even be a big deal. I told him I had previous dinner arrangements (which so far consists of a Nutella sandwich party at my friend's house )...and my friends use AIM and I dont, and they're very concerned about the situation and very proactive about preventing him asking me out or any very bad situations like that.
so maybe it's not a big deal.
anyway, I'm gonna go take a shower and eat some cake and read some Harry Potter or something. I'm so tired, had crew this morning and we (B boat) beat the A boat's ass!
)...and my friends use AIM and I dont, and they're very concerned about the situation and very proactive about preventing him asking me out or any very bad situations like that. so maybe it's not a big deal.
anyway, I'm gonna go take a shower and eat some cake and read some Harry Potter or something. I'm so tired, had crew this morning and we (B boat) beat the A boat's ass!
{paintedroses}
New Yorker
Hey VG and redkat
elevation2u
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^ loves me, loves me not, loves me, loves....
redkat
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^Hi elevation2U
where the hell have you been?
Hi painted
where the hell have you been?
Hi painted
{paintedroses}
New Yorker
^ cool sig 
redkat
Blue Crack Addict
^
wants to see darren
thank you!! I'm excited to have one
wants to see darren
thank you!! I'm excited to have one
{paintedroses}
New Yorker
^ is darren Mullen4Prez? well if hes as good as you say
redkat
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^
should know that GG and I have fought for him in the past
yes also known as m4p
he's a lovely Irishman
should know that GG and I have fought for him in the past
yes also known as m4p
he's a lovely Irishman
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{paintedroses}
New Yorker
< likes the irish
redkat
Blue Crack Addict
^don't we all
redkat
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^
is right on cue
an irishman
is right on cue
an irishman
{paintedroses}
New Yorker
^^ why the tears LJT?
redkat
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^
playing our emotions
playing our emotions
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