I didn't get around the country like I did in '01, but I'll cast my vote for 12/4 Boston. To me, 12/5 was even better.
There were many other things that made 12/5 better that will never come off on an audio recording, but maybe they would on video. Here's how I rank the years shows that I saw:
Tier 1:
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12/5 - spontaneous and a fantastic crowd. Probably the best 1st Set of the entire year IMO. Tons of snippets, Elvis and Santa Clause, great band and fan interaction. This was special.
12/4 - amazingly tight on this night. I missed out on the 3rd encore, but those two songs would not have put it over the 12/5 show for me. It was pretty standard fair until that point. Maybe 12/4 and 12/5 were the best nights back to back on the tour.
5/26 - Great departure from setlist and extended Bad - both gave this show big lift off. A true fans show.
Tier 2:
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5/28 - great set but it felt forced and as if they were already on the plane out of there. Maybe I was expecting more.
12/7 - nice show, good mix of fans from all over. Hartford just shouldn't be a stop anymore.
10/3 - could have been great, I thought the place would come down after streets, but the band didn't depart with us on the journey. If so, the place would have completely gone off!
10/4 - A very good show but nothing special.
Tier 3:
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5/24 - kind of reminds me of the 1st show in '01 @ Boston - U2 a la average.
If I had it to do over again, I'd definitely get back to Montreal or somewhere in Canada again.