WildHoneyAlways said:
This company seems to do pretty well seeing breasts as a sex symbol. Where are the threads protesting them?
Great point
Victoria's Secret is displaying breasts as the object of sexual thoughts and gratification for men-yes they are selling the lingerie to women, but who is watching the Victoria's Secret show on TV? Yes I'm sure plenty of women do watch it, but let's get real about how VS markets. Breasts displayed in that way are great, but not as the source of food for a baby. Because as we know the world revolves around men and their sexual desires and gratification
. It's the good ole Madonna/whore thing, not that I define breasts displayed in a sexy fashion as being "whorish", I don't. I like them to be also be displayed in a respectful, classy, and tasteful way- that's just my preference.
It's like the thread I started once about the New England Patriots having cheerleaders breasts hanging out, yet some people had an issue with women breastfeeding in the stands and thought they should have to do it in a restroom. It's a ridiculous blatant double standard.
One mother who didn't like the cover explains she was concerned about her 13-year-old son seeing it.
"I shredded it," said Gayle Ash, of Belton, Texas, in a telephone interview. "A breast is a breast — it's a sexual thing. He didn't need to see that."
I really feel sorry for this 13 year old boy, that his mother apparently intends to teach him that breasts exist solely as a sexual object for his pleasure. It's so disappointing that some women would raise their sons in that sexist way. Maybe the women who view breasts as being solely sex related are reinforcing the feelings that their husbands have, after all breasts aren't really where all and the optimum sexual pleasure is for women. Not that they are for men either but comparitively speaking.. If women want to breastfeed in private that is their decision and I completely respect that, but I cant respect the view that it should be private because breasts exist for sexual pleasure and for the sexual and visual pleasure of men. And implied is that men somehow can't control themselves when they see a breast in public, especially for the purposes of feeding a baby. I would think men would be rather outraged, that notion doesn't exactly portray them in the best light. Or maybe the ones who have those views about women and their breasts just wouldn't care because it's just reinforcing their attitudes and behavior
So is that most men and thus the reason for the lack of outrage?
I believe God also made breasts as part of the beauty of women, and to feed babies. To reduce them to sexual objects disrespects that, not that God didn't intend for men and women to have sexual pleasure too. But at the same time it is demeaning God and males and females to have certain attitudes about women, men, breasts, and breastfeeding. I don't get it.
Men shirtless in public is acceptable, even though they don't have to breastfeed.
Saggy man boobs displayed in public even though men don't have to breastfeed = still acceptable.
Women breastfeeding discreetly in public is just so wrong, because men's chests and some men's saggy man boobs don't drive women wild sexually and don't exist solely as objects of sexual desire and gratification for women. Is that it?