~BrightestStar~ said:
It's funny, as I was thinking about that and writing it all out, I suddenly realized how much like you I sounded. :lol : :clone:
And I really should be understanding, cause I'm the same too...when I'm stressed I like to be left alone, have some space...
I think part of what makes me so insecure or whatever is that we aren't from the same circle. So there's no grapevine contact or anything like that. There's no one to say, "oh hey, I bumped into Adam the other day and bot is he freakin about some lab".
So he could ride an elephant to school and unless he told me, I wouldn't know.
Ok...well, maybe that's not a great example...
I think I kind of fear that if I keep sending him messages, and he's not responding that I'll seem clingy, or whatever....
You are, of course, offering excellent advice, per usual. Maybe I'll leave him a message next time he's signed into MSN...(he doesn't check his email much...)
Aww, thanks for listening girls. :heart :
I tell ya, we should just have PGP sleepover, and eat chocolate and rant about boys and watch movies with hot men...
You're supposed to share my good qualities, not my bad ones. Y'know, like the wit and charm.
OMG, I know exactly what you mean about not sharing a common social circle, and not getting news about the person!! We're totally like that, too. The only people we have in common (sorta) is my friend and his friend that know each other...and that's a weird situation, so I make it a point not to really exchange information with either side about the other.
I think I've gotten used to that now though, and if something's up, we're in a place where I can just call him. It wasn't like that at the beginning though, so I completely understand.
I think you should leave him a message. Even if he doesn't take you up on the offer to talk or whatever, it's never a bad thing to let someone know you're thinking of them, and that you care, when they're going through a difficult time.