onebloodonelife
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So, I'm living with a good friend of mine from high school in the dorms. Her boyfriend also lives in the city, but in his own apartment. Before we moved, she told me and claimed she would only spend one night a week over at his apartment. Fine, I can deal with that. Now, it's turned into an every weekend thing, as well as one night during the week.
I feel kind of bad for her boyfriend because he doesn't know anyone here and goes to the technical college, so he doesn't get quite the same experience as he would at the university living in dorms. Basically, he's lonely.
Here's my issue: I signed up to live with her because I actually wanted to hang out with her, not end up sitting around all weekend by myself. When she is here, it's cool, we end up having really good conversations, stuff like that. But when she's not, that's when the problems start. It's hard enough for me to meet people; I'm sort of a "strong" personality, opinionated, etc. Some people don't take to it well. I pretty much end up isolated for an entire weekend doing nothing because I haven't found people to hang out with yet. A lot of people on my floor are very into partying, which I'm not. Then, there are our neighbors, who are cool, but very studies oriented, like spending hours upon hours a day studying and doing homework. And, one of the neighbors recently got a boyfriend, so she's been spending most of her time with him, and then coming over to our room, asking to talk to my roommate about all of her dirty whateverness.
I'm just all over the place about this right now because I enjoy living up here so much. I'm way more at ease in the city than I ever was at home, and it's great to be living away from my family. But, I'm having such a problem with this. The other thing is that my roomie comes home on Sundays and proceeds to tell me all about her wild sex, something I definitely don't want to hear about, especially when I've been freaking sitting in the dorm all weekend. It's just getting really frustrating, and I'm regretting signing up to live with her instead of taking my chances with a random roommate selection. I'm so upset about it and don't know what to do.
I feel kind of bad for her boyfriend because he doesn't know anyone here and goes to the technical college, so he doesn't get quite the same experience as he would at the university living in dorms. Basically, he's lonely.
Here's my issue: I signed up to live with her because I actually wanted to hang out with her, not end up sitting around all weekend by myself. When she is here, it's cool, we end up having really good conversations, stuff like that. But when she's not, that's when the problems start. It's hard enough for me to meet people; I'm sort of a "strong" personality, opinionated, etc. Some people don't take to it well. I pretty much end up isolated for an entire weekend doing nothing because I haven't found people to hang out with yet. A lot of people on my floor are very into partying, which I'm not. Then, there are our neighbors, who are cool, but very studies oriented, like spending hours upon hours a day studying and doing homework. And, one of the neighbors recently got a boyfriend, so she's been spending most of her time with him, and then coming over to our room, asking to talk to my roommate about all of her dirty whateverness.
I'm just all over the place about this right now because I enjoy living up here so much. I'm way more at ease in the city than I ever was at home, and it's great to be living away from my family. But, I'm having such a problem with this. The other thing is that my roomie comes home on Sundays and proceeds to tell me all about her wild sex, something I definitely don't want to hear about, especially when I've been freaking sitting in the dorm all weekend. It's just getting really frustrating, and I'm regretting signing up to live with her instead of taking my chances with a random roommate selection. I'm so upset about it and don't know what to do.