U2democrat
Blue Crack Addict
I'm entering the 4th week of my 3rd year in college. The last two years I lived with the same roommate, who was always very nice, kind, and gentle. This summer, she dumped her boyfriend of 3 years and since has been a VERY different person. I can understand some of her changes, feeling a need for attention, self esteem boosts, etc. Fine. But for the last 4 weeks (we're not in the same room together but we're in the same unit together) she has been treating both me and her "best friend" who also lives with us like crap, while putting on a goody goody front to everyone else we live with.
She is rude to me, she is condescending and gives me attitude. She only comes to my room when she needs something from me, where as I have been nothing but nice and have attempted to socialize with her, but when I do she's almost always on her computer obviously paying more attention to friends online than to me.
She's also been doing this to her "best friend", who I have had several venting sessions with about her. Neither of us have done anything to deserve the treatment she is giving us, and there is only so much I can take before I snap back at her and the drama begins.
I'm not good at confronting people about these things, frankly I'm not courageous enough...and I know even if I were to say something to her she would probably act innocent.
It's just frustrating for me to have someone I have gotten along with so well in the past not just let me fall by the wayside, she's kicking me by the wayside and I have done nothing to deserve it...and it's only the beginning of the year.
She is rude to me, she is condescending and gives me attitude. She only comes to my room when she needs something from me, where as I have been nothing but nice and have attempted to socialize with her, but when I do she's almost always on her computer obviously paying more attention to friends online than to me.
She's also been doing this to her "best friend", who I have had several venting sessions with about her. Neither of us have done anything to deserve the treatment she is giving us, and there is only so much I can take before I snap back at her and the drama begins.
I'm not good at confronting people about these things, frankly I'm not courageous enough...and I know even if I were to say something to her she would probably act innocent.
It's just frustrating for me to have someone I have gotten along with so well in the past not just let me fall by the wayside, she's kicking me by the wayside and I have done nothing to deserve it...and it's only the beginning of the year.