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For Honor said:
well, at least you sent the letter
I'm one of those people that believes true love is one of the few things that can't be broken in this world. Another is the cycle of life.
I hope you enjoy moving forward, and I will try to do the same, too.
Best wishes,
2Hearts said:
I don't understand the significance of the 'cycle of life'. Could you explain what it means? If it means that seeing a newborn baby eases the pain of grief, then it just doesn't work for me.
First, really, what are you refering to?
I don't understand what you mean by "Seeing a newborn baby eases the pain of grief"
Do you mean just literally? Like, seeing a newborn baby would make you feel better?
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But what I meant by "cycle of life" is this....
I probably could have said 'the natural way of the world', or something simlar. What I am trying to get at is a complext thing, that I tried to sum up in a few words.
"The cycle of life", as I said it, was an attempt to convey this idea:
Everything that can be touched can and will change. Relationships tend to change over time, all things change. I won't get into it too much, but... I was using in my above sentances like this:
"I believe that in life, everlasting love is real, and exists. True love like that can be eternal (though it changes over time, and grows). However, along with that, I accept that there is a certain way of things in this world. if the relationship breaks, then don't worry about it. Things that aren't meant to last don't last. That's just "nature". "
(I concluded with "I hope you enjoy moving forward" because you have to face whatever life throws at you. (And that's what I'm doing now, myself). )
But essentially, my statement, that whole like about love and the cycle of life, was getting at this: Love can be a lasting thing within this world of constant change. Love can be a seemingly constant in a world of fluctiations. But the truth is that real love changes and adapts over time.
I seemingly (to myself), presented a paradox of contradictions - love (an everlasting, everconstant thing), and "the cycle of life" (growing, maturing, getting old, dieing, etc - but applied to all things, people and relationships, anything).
But I suppose my ultimate feeling about love and life is this:
True love is not something separate from how the world works.
True love can fit within the constant state of change that is this world.
True love does not stand apart from the world, but infact, coexists with it.
(I wonder if this is making any sense)
(and really, it stems from this long running thing in my head........
See....... I always believe that there was "love" and "everything else in the world". They were two separate entities almost, because when I was in love, I acted so "different", almost. I always saw them as two different ways of living, sort of. (And that is true, because when you really love someone, you care less about yourself...) Ah, I'm all over the place...
But..... it was like two differnt forms of existance..... or like
(from what little I do know), kind of like quantum mechanics vs gravity - how could both of those exist?
In the end, my conclusion is that they both do exist, (a sort of string theory, if you will). But.........
To go all the way back to my original, or previous post.....
The statment I was making was that......
*You can't avoid the reality that relationships don't always work out in this world. However, true love does exist, and you can have one everlasting relationship.*
I guess it is a contradiction, and in the end doesn't really say much. But as you can tell, I've put a lot of thought into the reasoing behind it all, even if it comes to a rather futile end point.
But I think the ..... 'going in a full circle' thing is neccesarry sometimes.
Anyhow....... does that make any sense, at all?
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PS - I feel like I just wrote a paper.