meegannie
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joerags said:How many of you women would consider going out with a bald guy? Be honest. Seriously, be honest.
My husband is losing his hair and has been since before I met him.
joerags said:How many of you women would consider going out with a bald guy? Be honest. Seriously, be honest.
marik said:i know, but do you see what i'm saying?
joerags said:Everyone is superficial, whether we admit it or not. If you are not superficial, something is wrong with you.
Looks are everything. Hasn't the show Average Joe taught us anything? The first two seconds you see a person, you automatically know if they are hot or not. If they are not hot, then you will have no interest.
If you are dating a bald guy, you will come across a more handsome man with all the qualities you are looking for and will probably dump the bald loser for the hunky stud. Why do you think women are obsessed with Soap Operas? They want to see the hunks. Who can blame them?
Me? I have a big nose, a skinny face, and losing my hair. If I were a woman, I wouldn't be attractive to a guy like me.
But it's a shame, because even though I may sound like a jerk, I don't consider looks to be important when it comes to women. I am a walking contradiction. I am being absolutely truthful about this. It's like how women are so insecure about their weight, just like I am insecure about my baldness. I don't understand how women are so insecure about their weight. To me, a full-figured woman is just as sexy as these model-type celebrities. This is so true. In fact, I am finding myself more attractive to woman who are full-figured. And I am not overly obese. I am 6-foot, 210 pounds, but I am solid. I look more like a football player.
So my problem is this: I am not superficial, but I have this notion that everybody else in the world is superficial. And that's why I don't have any self-confidence and self-esteem because of what I think the world perceives me, which is a balding, big nose, skinny face dork.
marik said:
i dont feel like i've demeaned women as a whole at all. it's simply an observation based on my experience that most are superficial when it comes to looks. most of you ladies here, though, sound like you have wonderful attitudes.
marik said:but quite honestly, i'd really wish to have a woman that from the first time i ever saw her i was blown away with her looks, and then got to know her and her persoanlity was just as mind-blowing VS. a girl that was nothing special to look at at first, got to know her personality, fell in love with that, and now see her as beautiful becasue of it.
joerags said:If you are dating a bald guy, you will come across a more handsome man with all the qualities you are looking for and will probably dump the bald loser for the hunky stud. Why do you think women are obsessed with Soap Operas? They want to see the hunks. Who can blame them?
dandy said:
either that, or you're just messing with us.
joerags said:Everyone is superficial, whether we admit it or not. If you are not superficial, something is wrong with you.
Looks are everything. Hasn't the show Average Joe taught us anything? The first two seconds you see a person, you automatically know if they are hot or not. If they are not hot, then you will have no interest.
If you are dating a bald guy, you will come across a more handsome man with all the qualities you are looking for and will probably dump the bald loser for the hunky stud. Why do you think women are obsessed with Soap Operas? They want to see the hunks. Who can blame them?
Me? I have a big nose, a skinny face, and losing my hair. If I were a woman, I wouldn't be attractive to a guy like me.
But it's a shame, because even though I may sound like a jerk, I don't consider looks to be important when it comes to women. I am a walking contradiction. I am being absolutely truthful about this. It's like how women are so insecure about their weight, just like I am insecure about my baldness. I don't understand how women are so insecure about their weight. To me, a full-figured woman is just as sexy as these model-type celebrities. This is so true. In fact, I am finding myself more attractive to woman who are full-figured. And I am not overly obese. I am 6-foot, 210 pounds, but I am solid. I look more like a football player.
So my problem is this: I am not superficial, but I have this notion that everybody else in the world is superficial. And that's why I don't have any self-confidence and self-esteem because of what I think the world perceives me, which is a balding, big nose, skinny face dork.
dandy said:
i think the crux of your problem lies here: women are not vapid, mindless creatures who are "obsessed with soap operas" and "hunky" (whatever the hell that means) men. oops, i meant "studs." where i come from, women read books and have careers and can make up our own minds about what we find attractive in a man regardless of whatever mindless drivel is on the telly.
you complain that women aren't attracted to you and assume it must be your lack of hair, but perhaps it's your simplistic view about how women think/are that turns them off.
either that, or you're just messing with us.
marik said:i've posted questions regarding this before, but i keep thinking up things to ask.
when you see a guy that wear's his hat EVERYDAY, and refuses to take it off- when asked, to re-adjust, NEVER, do you suspect that he is balding and thats the real reason?
do you ever have that shocked, kinda pity, feeling when some guy takes off his hat and you are surprised to see he's been balding underneath there the whole time you'd known him, but you never considered it?
wouldn't you agree, that when you see a young guy balding (18-21) you feel more pity for him than if you saw a 40 yr old balding guy?
and my real question, do you think a normal guy could pull off the look that Edge does to hide that he is balding?
Originally posted by joerags So my problem is this: I am not superficial, but I have this notion that everybody else in the world is superficial. And that's why I don't have any self-confidence and self-esteem because of what I think the world perceives me, which is a balding, big nose, skinny face dork.
the soul waits said:
Wow Joerags, it's astonishing to read how many prejudices are installed in your mind. You are not superficial but have the idea that everyone else is? Why? And especially women? Because a brainless tv-show "taught" you that?
I don't even know where to begin, commenting to this post.
I'm sad to say that I'm inclined to believe that your "problems" are far deeper than balding. And that the balding for you is a perfect excuse to blame all your unfortune on, rather than searching deeper an confronting the underlying issues.