absintheminded
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I have been talking to this guy for about a year, casually hanging out through mutual friends until about two months ago.
I have liked him all throughout the year- we've had some extensive guts-pouring-out conversations..
and now we have been spending a lot of nights together, dinners, watching movies, bonfires, nightcaps, and just plain hanging out and stuff.
I feel open to be myself with him and he likes me for who I am, there's no fronts. No little facades. I have never been like this with another man, I've always felt a little too shy, or felt like I had to pretend to be someone else to get him to like me.
This guy is different, he amuses me and impresses me, and I do the same to him. But we "get" each other. We laugh at one another's jokes and finish each others sentences.
The first few nights I spent the night at his house I slept out on his couch.
Then we started hanging out exclusively, without our mutual friends, and BAM we had a nice night of kissing and fondlings and cuddling.
Since then we've been sort of inseparable, constantly on the phone for hours at a time, texting when we couldn't talk, I'd be over at his house every other night, even going so far as to spending time with him AT his work because we wanted to see each other. His best friend even told me while alone with me, that he knows that his friend "really really digs me"...
Here's the problem, we like each other a lot...and each night I'm over there I sleep with him and each night I kind of expect something.
We have slept together about a dozen times and he hasn't made a move.
What is wrong here? Does he just not fancy me?
*He's not gay either, he's had previous relationships with women and even has a child.
I have liked him all throughout the year- we've had some extensive guts-pouring-out conversations..
and now we have been spending a lot of nights together, dinners, watching movies, bonfires, nightcaps, and just plain hanging out and stuff.
I feel open to be myself with him and he likes me for who I am, there's no fronts. No little facades. I have never been like this with another man, I've always felt a little too shy, or felt like I had to pretend to be someone else to get him to like me.
This guy is different, he amuses me and impresses me, and I do the same to him. But we "get" each other. We laugh at one another's jokes and finish each others sentences.
The first few nights I spent the night at his house I slept out on his couch.
Then we started hanging out exclusively, without our mutual friends, and BAM we had a nice night of kissing and fondlings and cuddling.
Since then we've been sort of inseparable, constantly on the phone for hours at a time, texting when we couldn't talk, I'd be over at his house every other night, even going so far as to spending time with him AT his work because we wanted to see each other. His best friend even told me while alone with me, that he knows that his friend "really really digs me"...
Here's the problem, we like each other a lot...and each night I'm over there I sleep with him and each night I kind of expect something.
We have slept together about a dozen times and he hasn't made a move.
What is wrong here? Does he just not fancy me?
*He's not gay either, he's had previous relationships with women and even has a child.