You and your mum will be in my prayers. Please don't feel pressured to update. Take care of yourself and your family, and we'll be here when you get back.
thanks for all your kind thoughts.. hopefully if they get the chest infection cleared up she will be home by the weekend, we are bringing her home to live with us so we can keep a better eye on her, it hasnt been easy for her from my dad died in November, but at least she won't feel so lonely