Naya
Refugee
Alright here's the deal: I'm going out tonight, with my two girlfriends and their boyfriends. Yup, I'm going out with two lovey dovey couples. Although I am happy to see my best friend, but Im so fucking tired of being like the third wheel (or for this case, the 5th wheel. ha.ha.) I do know that my girlfriends could make the effort of inviting some good looking boy to keep me company, yet it's always the same scenario. I just don't get it: They know that I HATE my single status, that I'm lonely, etc. but still they're always bringing their freaking boyfriends. I wouldn't mind a girls night out, if they could detach from their boyfriends for one night, but NO ! Granted, I do get along fabulously with my best friend's boyfriend, but still. You might be asking: "Well, Naya just don't go out tonight" but it's Saturday, I haven'T been out for a while and I want to get out of the house !
I know that my best friend's boyfriend has some single male friends. They are all attractive (well the two of them that are single)..I do know that my friend's boyfriend thinks I'm, well, good looking, interesting, bla bla,(and, um other things too ). Don't worry he loves her, he's not my type, and she's the one he loves, and I do know that he has told his male friends that of all my best friend's friends I'm the one whom he thinks is the most attractive..But I just don't understand why he never brings along his male friends ! I have ranted so much to them about how I was looking for someone and told them to introduce me to some guys. I mean, just for a night, I don't want a marriage proposal, I just want to hang out with a guy, just as friends, even. I DON'T CARE ! I just don't want to drink my beer and dance alone while the two couples are grabbing each other's arses and necking ! I don't want to get hit on by slimy, drunk, horny guys either that are at the club just to find someone for the night...I just want someone to keep me company and talk with (and maybe flirt with) !
Alright I know I'm not this sexy babe, but I do consider myself an interesting person who knows how to have fun, (but who's maybe a bit too shy)...But still that's no reason to think that my shyness will get in the way of finding a boyfriend !
So is anyone in the same situation as I am? Who thinks their friends should be a bit more considerate and make an effort? Who are tired of being the third wheel? Who would like to see their friends for one night WITHOUT their boyfriend/girlfriend accompanying them ?
Or am I just whiny?
I know that my best friend's boyfriend has some single male friends. They are all attractive (well the two of them that are single)..I do know that my friend's boyfriend thinks I'm, well, good looking, interesting, bla bla,(and, um other things too ). Don't worry he loves her, he's not my type, and she's the one he loves, and I do know that he has told his male friends that of all my best friend's friends I'm the one whom he thinks is the most attractive..But I just don't understand why he never brings along his male friends ! I have ranted so much to them about how I was looking for someone and told them to introduce me to some guys. I mean, just for a night, I don't want a marriage proposal, I just want to hang out with a guy, just as friends, even. I DON'T CARE ! I just don't want to drink my beer and dance alone while the two couples are grabbing each other's arses and necking ! I don't want to get hit on by slimy, drunk, horny guys either that are at the club just to find someone for the night...I just want someone to keep me company and talk with (and maybe flirt with) !
Alright I know I'm not this sexy babe, but I do consider myself an interesting person who knows how to have fun, (but who's maybe a bit too shy)...But still that's no reason to think that my shyness will get in the way of finding a boyfriend !
So is anyone in the same situation as I am? Who thinks their friends should be a bit more considerate and make an effort? Who are tired of being the third wheel? Who would like to see their friends for one night WITHOUT their boyfriend/girlfriend accompanying them ?
Or am I just whiny?
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