loverippedaway
The Fly
To put it simply i need help. I have a girlfriend who I have been with (On and off) for the past year and a half, and we have hit a roadblock, a roadblock i have created and that I can fix (hopefully)
basically she is upset because everytime she wants to go hang out with her friends I get mad at her, and I honestly don't know why. this is the real world, and we are both in high school its not right or normal to be tied down completly to another person. This has come up before in the past, and nothing has really ever changed. This time I do want to change my ways, this relationship means everything to me, and it makes no sense why I get mad at her. I hang out with my friends, she doesn't care, she hangs out with her's and its a big deal.
any ideas?
basically i told her I would change, she said she didn't believe me, I said i'd prove it to her, thats really all I can do.
I don't know what advice anyone can give me, its pretty obvious don't be so clingy. let her have her own life, but it kind of felt better to write this, so if anyone has comments, experiences, anything at all PLEASE do comment!
thank you
basically she is upset because everytime she wants to go hang out with her friends I get mad at her, and I honestly don't know why. this is the real world, and we are both in high school its not right or normal to be tied down completly to another person. This has come up before in the past, and nothing has really ever changed. This time I do want to change my ways, this relationship means everything to me, and it makes no sense why I get mad at her. I hang out with my friends, she doesn't care, she hangs out with her's and its a big deal.
any ideas?
basically i told her I would change, she said she didn't believe me, I said i'd prove it to her, thats really all I can do.
I don't know what advice anyone can give me, its pretty obvious don't be so clingy. let her have her own life, but it kind of felt better to write this, so if anyone has comments, experiences, anything at all PLEASE do comment!
thank you