Hey guys.
Not a ground breaking problem, but a problem nonetheless.
"There's this girl"
Met her a few months ago. She's on my course. Totally crazy about her. I literally can't stop thinking about her. It was tricky at first, because there a lot of people on my course so I didnt really see her at all. But gradually I managed to see her more, got to know her friends and tried to build up the situation. I'm now pretty well ingratiated into her group. I've texted her a fair bit (not in a stalkerish way!), and we see eachother quite a lot now, but theres always other people around. as a result i havent had a great deal of chance to talk to her personally one on one. Take tonight for example. She and her mate come round to watch a dvd with me and my flatmates. Now I try throwing in a few quips now and then, and try to direct whatever i say to her. But its impossible with so many people around! And it feels like a kick in the nuts when she leaves, because I feel like its another opportunity wasted.
Now she's having a party on Friday (whether or not its going to be a quiet affair I'm not sure, but there shouldnt be too many folk there). She leaves for the summer the next day. Now sure she'll be back in August, but I'm not sure I can take a whole 8 weeks sitting around being miserable and wondering if she's meeting someone else. Do I tell her how I feel? And if so how?? What should I do???
Not a ground breaking problem, but a problem nonetheless.
"There's this girl"
Met her a few months ago. She's on my course. Totally crazy about her. I literally can't stop thinking about her. It was tricky at first, because there a lot of people on my course so I didnt really see her at all. But gradually I managed to see her more, got to know her friends and tried to build up the situation. I'm now pretty well ingratiated into her group. I've texted her a fair bit (not in a stalkerish way!), and we see eachother quite a lot now, but theres always other people around. as a result i havent had a great deal of chance to talk to her personally one on one. Take tonight for example. She and her mate come round to watch a dvd with me and my flatmates. Now I try throwing in a few quips now and then, and try to direct whatever i say to her. But its impossible with so many people around! And it feels like a kick in the nuts when she leaves, because I feel like its another opportunity wasted.
Now she's having a party on Friday (whether or not its going to be a quiet affair I'm not sure, but there shouldnt be too many folk there). She leaves for the summer the next day. Now sure she'll be back in August, but I'm not sure I can take a whole 8 weeks sitting around being miserable and wondering if she's meeting someone else. Do I tell her how I feel? And if so how?? What should I do???