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So I'm a gay man. And my longest gay friend and I have been friends for about 11 years now. We've had a checkered history where he's hurt/betrayed me a few times, but I've always forgiven him and our friendship is really good right now and has been for a year or so.
So my friend has a life-partner. They've been together for about 6 years now. They're actually registered with the State of California as Domestic Partners.
A few years ago, the 3 of us actually used to live together (them in one room, me in my own), but it didn't work out. (Hence one of the ways my friend hurt me and we didn't tallk for about a year.) As it turns out, I now live directly next door to my friend and his life-partner. In fact, our condos actually touch and we share the same bedroom wall.
So now all the bridges are mended, time has healed wounds and the 3 of us get along great.
Fast forward to a couple days ago. Another friend of mine had sent out this silly survey on My Space asking what would you do with her if you had her all to yourself for 24 hours in her room. So I sent back a silly e-mail and then re-posted the survey to all my friends.
Yesterday, I get a message from my friend's life-partner saying that he's always thought I was attractive and that if he had me all to himself for a day in my room he'd love to do all kinds of things to me in bed, and he's always thought it would be hot to get with me. And then he said, "Shhhhhh. This will just be our well-kept secret." (I'm sanitizing the message a bit for propriety's sake.)
Now, I know my friend and his partner have played around with "thirds" before, and I know that my friend allowed his partner to sleep with one of their mutual friends because the friend had never done this one thing before, so my friend let his partner do it to their mutual friend.
But wow! I mean, I was just so shocked. I know the partner and I are friends now and on good terms, but this just came out of left-field! I know that they have a sort of "semi-open relationship", but this just seems a bit weird since the partner knows that his "husband" is one of my best friends.
Anyway, I think I'm just making more of it then there actually is because I've been single for a long time now and it's flattering to get the attention. Plus, my friend's partner is hot and I've heard he's good in bed. So it probably would be hot if we got together.
But I could never let that happen because: 1) I don't want to be that kind of guy, and 2) I don't want to do that to my friend.
Anyway . . . I guess I just wanted to get that off my chest and see what you all thought. This kind of thing has never happened to me before.
Thanks for reading.
So my friend has a life-partner. They've been together for about 6 years now. They're actually registered with the State of California as Domestic Partners.
A few years ago, the 3 of us actually used to live together (them in one room, me in my own), but it didn't work out. (Hence one of the ways my friend hurt me and we didn't tallk for about a year.) As it turns out, I now live directly next door to my friend and his life-partner. In fact, our condos actually touch and we share the same bedroom wall.
So now all the bridges are mended, time has healed wounds and the 3 of us get along great.
Fast forward to a couple days ago. Another friend of mine had sent out this silly survey on My Space asking what would you do with her if you had her all to yourself for 24 hours in her room. So I sent back a silly e-mail and then re-posted the survey to all my friends.
Yesterday, I get a message from my friend's life-partner saying that he's always thought I was attractive and that if he had me all to himself for a day in my room he'd love to do all kinds of things to me in bed, and he's always thought it would be hot to get with me. And then he said, "Shhhhhh. This will just be our well-kept secret." (I'm sanitizing the message a bit for propriety's sake.)
Now, I know my friend and his partner have played around with "thirds" before, and I know that my friend allowed his partner to sleep with one of their mutual friends because the friend had never done this one thing before, so my friend let his partner do it to their mutual friend.
But wow! I mean, I was just so shocked. I know the partner and I are friends now and on good terms, but this just came out of left-field! I know that they have a sort of "semi-open relationship", but this just seems a bit weird since the partner knows that his "husband" is one of my best friends.
Anyway, I think I'm just making more of it then there actually is because I've been single for a long time now and it's flattering to get the attention. Plus, my friend's partner is hot and I've heard he's good in bed. So it probably would be hot if we got together.
But I could never let that happen because: 1) I don't want to be that kind of guy, and 2) I don't want to do that to my friend.
Anyway . . . I guess I just wanted to get that off my chest and see what you all thought. This kind of thing has never happened to me before.
Thanks for reading.