we can agree on pretty much all of these things.
i will say, though, that i don't like the idea of "punishing" someone for having sex by forcing them to carry a baby to term. i also think that if a child is conceived through rape and/or incest, and if we are to take the view that all life is sacred or deserves a chance, then allowing abortions in those cases belies the belief that, deep down, it's not about the precious life of the child but about punishing women for having sex (since it is the women who are stuck with the child, as the men tend to leave ... nor do i think pushing people into a shotgun marriage that will likely end in divorce, if not worse, is a good thing either).
so, ultimately, while i fully understand and support people who push adoption over abortion, and are personally pro-life, i think that making abortion illegal would cause greater social harm than whatever harm there may or may not be due to it's legality.
how would you feel if part of sex education involved ways of being sexually intimate but not risking pregnancy?
it would seem to me that pro-life activists (not you, just saying in general) would be quite relieved that oral sex, mutual masturbation, and even anal sex are increasingly part of the sexual vernacular. no one's going to get pregnant with any of those activities, so why not encourage fellatio and cunninlingus? after all, it's all about the life of the child, so let's make sure that mom doesn't get pregnant by making sure that dad's semen stays outside her body. that, to me, seems a very responsible way to have sex.
or is it really just about being anti-sex?