VertigoGal
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yolland said:
The ceremony is just a marker, nothing more--you became Bat Mitzvah the day you turned 12, period. Meaning you were fully and autonomously invested on that day with the right to decide for yourself whether to be observant or not. The ceremony has no effect on that; it is just a celebration.
yeah I understand that, but that's almost the point. I care about my heritage and all but no aspect of the religion or any religion does much for me. However I think the *ceremony* meant something to my grandparents and I wish I would've considered that at the time, esp. since I already had all the Hebrew memorized and everything. Of course I could do one now but as I don't believe in a god and my parents/friends know that, I think it might seem a little disingenuous at this point.