Diemen said:
You do realize that someone can be attracted to your gender and still be able to control themselves in your presence, right?
. Any guys I've been around that I've liked, I've been able to control myself from throwing them to the floor right then and there, so you know, I'm thinking homosexuals aren't any different in that regard.
Diemen said:
What exactly do you fear in all this? That some man is going to come on to you and you'll feel all icky?
The question that begs to be asked is up now. I hope that you see an answer to it.
BrownEyedBoy, this really has nothing to do with privacy. As pointed out, there
are areas in the world where there are unisex restrooms, and where nude men and nude women gather together (ever hear of nudist colonies)? And they seem to handle things just fine overall. So that comparison falls flat. It's just absolutely ludicrous to try and separate homosexual males from heterosexual males because one
might hit on the other. If you really, honest to god feel uncomfortable, fine, then like suggested, wait until everyone else is done showering or hanging out in a room together or whatever.
And like I said earlier, if a guy DOES hit on you,
JUST TELL THEM YOU AREN'T INTERESTED. And I'd say it's a very safe bet that 99% of the time, they WILL back off and leave you alone.
I just love how this is such a common fear among straight people-like they seem to think they're suddenly gonna become a magnet for gay people or something. What on earth makes you think that? Homosexuals have their preferences just as anyone else does, just because someone is gay doesn't mean they're going to fall all over every single person of their gender that moves.
You know, just like how I don't fall all over every single guy that crosses my line of vision. Once again, people are making this issue way,
way,
WAY more difficult than it needs to be.
Angela