But in context dear Superstar, context. It takes on a new meaning. With or Without You sung by MacPhisto would be seedy. But neither Lemon or With or Without You are sung by MacPhisto, really. It's the old two sides of the clown story. Stick the video in again and watch the differences in the way he performs both songs and pay attention to the lyrics of both of them.
Lemon = Bright lighting, highlighting the glittery get up. Showpony camp Bono parading up and down the ramp. Strutting, really throwing himself at the front rows of the audience, belting parts of the song out at the top of his lungs right to the back rows of the stadium. Loaded with confidence and theatrics. Putting on a show and adoring, absolutely adoring, the attention he is receiving in return from 50,000 people. That "you love me.... as you should" grin. He grabs the camera and with all the cockiness and confidence in the world thrusts it backwards and forwards like he's fucking it, then just throws it away and moves on. Loving it, but absolutely needs that love from the crowd in return.
With or Without You = Dark blue and purple lights. Bono huddled and hunched in a corner of the ramp, making no direct contact with the audience, instead looking out over them like he's searching for one particular person out there. He sings the song low and with little effort. Soft, quiet, almost mumbling in parts. The makeup is running, he looks lost and very alone. Suddenly the fact that 50,000 people are there means nothing, it's the one person that is missing that matters. When he 'flirts' with the camera in this song it's not the cocky thrusting in Lemon, but a real desperation, practicaly begging the camera to come over to him, and this time he pulls it into his heart.
One of the themes of Lemon is questioning what drives man to creativity, artistic expression etc, and in it Bono is referencing his mother, and how he's "swimming after her". It's basically an open admission of what he always says about "needing the love of 50,000 people to feel normal", or needing that love to replace the one love that he's always missed? And there is Bono performing the song at the most attention seeking/cocky/show me some love level you will ever see him. A performance more than any other that demands that the audience give it up for him. That character is demanding attention, compliments, physical and emotional satisfaction. Then he slips into With or Without You, which I think is more translating in this context into being something brutaly honest. If "Bono" the creative performer is essentially born of him needing to replace that lost love of his mother, and if that transition of songs shows him actually not finding the love he needs from the 50,000 and still searching out there among the crowd for that one person, while confused about what he can can't live with or without.... think about it. U2. 'Bono'. The audience. The attention. His mother. With or Without You. Given some hard choices, what would he choose to live with, and what would he choose to live without? One does not exist if the other is there.
I think it is Bono's most nakedly honest 15 minutes on stage, maybe even off it. I think Lemon>With or Without You is brilliant.