Pleban Girls Party - another time, another thread

[andberlin]

hi weldy!

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Weldy

Thanks Drea....I didn't want to say something about this last week cause she was getting better (if at all) and I didn't want to bother you girls....especially SG and VP....since they had/have bad problems too

Plus I thought you girls would get sick of me whining about my mother being in the hospital AGAIN.....no matter how bad she is now

Edit: Hi Fiona
Thanks SG.....I didn't want to bother you with my problems since you have problems of your own

 

[Sad_Girl]

Weldy, you can always feel free to share your burdens with us, hon no matter what

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Weldy, you can always feel free to share your burdens with us, hon no matter what

Thanks SG

I'm trying to be nice here though

 

[jobob]

Plus I thought you girls would get sick of me whining about my mother being in the hospital AGAIN.....no matter how bad she is now

You? Whining right now? Compared to this, I'm whining so much I should be

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

You? Whining right now? Compared to this, I'm whining so much I should be

I complain too much....and I can get irritating with it too...so that's why I said what I said

 

[Sad_Girl]

You? Whining right now? Compared to this, I'm whining so much I should be

Let's all get together!

 

[Sad_Girl]

I complain too much....and I can get irritating with it too...so that's why I said what I said

We all need to be able to vent sometimes - and right now, you have every reason to need to talk about things that are sad and difficult. You don't have to, of course, if you'd rather not think about it, we're here to entertain and have fun, too but you have nothing to apologize for

 

[jobob]

By the way, SG, my ankle was feeling much better today.

And I got another call today.

So things are looking up.

 

[andberlin]

yeah, get it all out if you need to weldy - you're among friends here

 

[Sad_Girl]

Good deal, Jo glad to hear it!

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

We all need to be able to vent sometimes - and right now, you have every reason to need to talk about things that are sad and difficult. You don't have to, of course, if you'd rather not think about it, we're here to entertain and have fun, too but you have nothing to apologize for

Thanks SG....I try too much to please other people

My dad said the same thing Fiona......right now I'm a mix bag of emotions. One moment I'm calm and normal and the next moment I'm my eyes out!

 

[Drea]

*updates journal*

Jo - I would've pointed out to that smartass coworker that the wheels on an office chair can go quite easily over toes...

 

[jobob]

My dad said the same thing Fiona......right now I'm a mix bag of emotions. One moment I'm calm and normal and the next moment I'm my eyes out!

That's OK for what you're going through, Weldy. I'd be more worried if you were telling us you were "fine."

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

That's OK for what you're going through, Weldy. I'd be more worried if you were telling us you were "fine."

Trust me...I do love my mom....even though I was more irritated at her than anything else during my lifetime.

 

[Sad_Girl]

That's OK for what you're going through, Weldy. I'd be more worried if you were telling us you were "fine."

Drea - why warn him? She should just roll over his toes to make her point

 

[jobob]

*updates journal*

Jo - I would've pointed out to that smartass coworker that the wheels on an office chair can go quite easily over toes...

Why, yes they can, can't they?

Naah, it's too much time and effort to roll over to his desk.

Besides, since one of our printers is right across from my desk, I have been scooting my chair over to the printer to pick up my printouts even before he said that. I'm no fool.

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Yea I'm not feeling as as I was on Sunday and Monday.....but I do have bouts of ness. I'm assuming once she does die.....I'll have even more bouts of ness. Then I'll proably starting to feel fully fine on Saturday cause I know my mother would be in a better place. And I truly grieved on Sunday and Monday when I first saw her in her semi-veg state (mainly cause I knew she wasn't going to get any better).

 

[andberlin]

Thanks SG....I try too much to please other people

My dad said the same thing Fiona......right now I'm a mix bag of emotions. One moment I'm calm and normal and the next moment I'm my eyes out!

it's so totally normal to be that way, everyone grieves differently. i know when my dad died i didn't cry at all and was a bit of a zombie, right up until the end of the funeral, and then i cried in front of 400 people ( ) as they carried him out of the church. the main thing is not to be hard on yourself, or to let anyone else tell you how you should be feeling

 

[Sad_Girl]

I don't know why I've turned into such a party pooper lately, but I've got to go to bed :yawn"

night all

Weldy

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

it's so totally normal to be that way, everyone grieves differently. i know when my dad died i didn't cry at all and was a bit of a zombie, right up until the end of the funeral, and then i cried in front of 400 people ( ) as they carried him out of the church. the main thing is not to be hard on yourself, or to let anyone else tell you how you should be feeling

I feel fine when I'm outside and not in my apartment or in her ICU room....but when I see her in her room or stay up this late in my apartment....I feel either guilt or loneliness.

I'm use to see her sleeping next to dad when I'm up during the night and see her (and I'm used to her) either at the computer or the TV (with the volume up really loudly cause she was going deaf in one ear) while I'm sleeping during the day (After I get up of course or go to the bathroom ). And now I feel lonely with just my dad sleeping in his and Mom's room and I feel extra lonely once he goes back to work next week during the day.

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

That's ok SG...I'm going to bed in about a half and hour myself.

Thanks anyways

 

[jobob]

Sorry to poop out on the party, but I need to go to bed myself.

Good night, all.

 

[Drea]

I'm going to head to bed too - g'night all

Weldy

 

[andberlin]

party poopers!
sweet dreams!




yeah, it's those moments when you expect them to be there that are the hardest - the kind of background moments that really make our lives. it's weird how something that's always been the same suddenly changes must be hard for you, you're doing really well

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Night Jo and Drea and Thanks

 

[flybabe]

 

[andberlin]

hi flybabe

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Well...I'm going to head to bed now.....tomorrow is going to be a long day for me.

Night Fiona and Flybabe...and thanks

 

[Alisaura]

Bye to those leaving!

Weldy... There is no right or wrong way to feel about something like this, I guess... Like everyone says, everyone is different and grieves differently.

Hey flybabe!