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Someone on the "turn offs" thread suggests there was too much focus on the negative, and that had occured to me too. So let's here it. What are your turn ons?
 
Considering I'm pretty bitter about love and guys right now, I'm shocked I was able to come up with some turn-ons. Here they are:

-Eyes. It's the first thing I notice when it comes to physical features.
-Making me laugh so hard I'm crying.
-Being able to hold a good conversation.
-The bear hugs they give.
-The way they're able to make you feel like you're the only girl in the room when they're staring at you.

I'm sure there are more, but I can't think of any right now.
 
Nicely done :)

Ok, I'll go. This man would win me forever. :flirt:

*creative/artistif
*passionate
*politically aware
*intelligent and educated (ie, you can have an interesting conversation with him)
*kind
*sense of adventure
*character/integrity
*someone who shares my faith/values about fighting war and poverty

Ok, the physicals :combust:

*I'm a sucker for a great smile
* nice eyes
*broad shoulders
* I'll second MVD's "good kisser" :kiss:
 
the oral program.
both giving and recieving.:)

stimulating conversation and intellectualism.
being spiritually connected whether in the same room or across the globe.

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Blue eyes
Sexy voice ( helps if they're irish)
Good kisser
Give good hugs
Good arse
Good sense of humour
Hairy chest
Kind
Caring
Manly, but sensitive
Gentleman
Nice smile
Poetic
 
This is more like it! :flirt:

*nice teeth
*"bedroom" eyes :drool: :flirt:
*likes to read
*kind, but not a pushover
*independent
*the ability to laugh at himself
*good conversationalist
*dark hair :heart:
*daring
*honest
*tall

I should stop now! :ohmy: More turn on's later. :flirt:
 
humor
intelligence
honesty
a good kisser/hugger
caring
sweet
loves cats
big hands
someone with a good head on his shoulders
Irish is a plus(that's all I've ever dated, how funny)
 
i'm a 23 yr old guy and in a girl i am turned on by....

- PASSION(must be passionate about SOMETHING in her life)
- DEEP ( can go to that other 'deep' level in a serious conversation- you'd be surprised how some lack this)
- MUST 'GET' ME (i am very weird, sum get this , others dont)
- ATTRACTIVE ABOVE THE SHOULDERS (what i find most striking is eyes, soft clear skin, nice hair, good teeth)
- SPEAK WELL (not swearing, not too shy, smart- does sound like trailer trash)
- SELF CONFIDENCE (doesn't need attention in a bar to feel good about herself, doesn't call herself fat, etc.)

those are the general deal breakers.... smaller things i like are..

- that lil' nose stud piercing
- tan (not too much like all those britney's)
- those two small divits in the small of the back
- glasses (expecially black-framed ones)
 
- Kind and warm
- Good sense of humour
- Knows how to enjoy themselves but can be serious too
- Believes that all decisions are made equally and nobody has the upperhand
- Has the same interests as me but enough different hobbies to keep things insteresting.
- Enjoys travelling
- Can accept me for who I am, flaws and all.

I like these positive threads a lot more :up:
 
a guy who:
- has a sense of humor and loves to laugh
- doesn't take himself too seriously
- is confident without being too cocky
- is interested in music, art, pop-culture, politics, etc
- likes to travel
- loves big cities
- likes to go out drinking and dancing, but sometimes just wants to stay in and watch a DVD
- is curious and open-minded
- is not a Republican
- likes to eat good food :drool:

now, onto the superficial... (these are not requirements, just things i tend to prefer!)
- has brown hair
- is not too preppy or conservative
- taller than me (i'm 5'6")
- good kisser
- likes to cuddle :cute:
- takes pride in his appearance (but is not too metrosexual!)
 
marik said:
i'm a 23 yr old guy and in a girl i am turned on by....

- PASSION(must be passionate about SOMETHING in her life)
- DEEP ( can go to that other 'deep' level in a serious conversation- you'd be surprised how some lack this)
- MUST 'GET' ME (i am very weird, sum get this , others dont)
- ATTRACTIVE ABOVE THE SHOULDERS (what i find most striking is eyes, soft clear skin, nice hair, good teeth)
- SPEAK WELL (not swearing, not too shy, smart- does sound like trailer trash)
- SELF CONFIDENCE (doesn't need attention in a bar to feel good about herself, doesn't call herself fat, etc.)

those are the general deal breakers.... smaller things i like are..

- that lil' nose stud piercing
- tan (not too much like all those britney's)
- those two small divits in the small of the back
- glasses (expecially black-framed ones)

basically this except flip the gender to 'he' then 'she'
 
smart
likes to try new things ex. restaurants, activities, etc
likes to travel a lot
good sense of humor, can handle jokes and can laugh at themselves
nice hair(prefer dark hair) ;)
is not judgmental/is open minded (preferably not republican)
can have good/intellectual conversations
nice teeth
likes to watch films - indie/foreign/strange
appreciates good music (prefer that he does not like rap,r&b, pop, country.. :reject: )
is not homophobic
is not too huggy (is that a word?:huh:) is not always trying to make out in public
likes to read books (not just maxim magazines)
is not toooooooo preoccupied with his appearance (working out excessively and always talking about the gym is boring ..i know from experience)
a good balance between goign otu and having fun and staying home and hang out/rent movie/etc..
can come up with things to do...is a bit spontaneous... does not expect me to think of what to do on dates 24/7:mad:
good tipper
well mannered at appropiate times but has a bit of a wild, goofy side and can make an ass out of himself
does not swear tooo excessivley
good grammar
understand politics and cares for the environment, less fortunate etc..
is not allergic to animals and enjoys their company
likes coffee:drool:
does not do drugs
can handle silence...doesnt find silence awkward and uncomfortable
knows how to work computers basically (youll be surprised at the guys i went out with who couldnt even print a word document)
 
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-Intelligent
-Independent (I dont want someone that HAS to spend every single waking moment with me, you have to have time to be an individual also, it works both ways, she needs to have her time also.)
-sense of humor
-down to earth
-kind
-has at least a few similiar interests or likes some things I do. (*this is probebly one of the most important ones to me. You have to be able to enjoy doing things together after all)

Physical characteristics would be more of what I prefer and not what I would have to have.

Hair: long dark hair, have always been attracted to that, but the girls I have dated have been primarily blondes. :shrug:

Body: Not real picky on this one. I actually prefer a girl that is more full figured over one that is a skeleton. But honestly, personality can make either of those more or less attractive.
 
- eyes :drool:
- a nice voice
- good talker/listener
- someone who doesn't smother me
- smart, but not too smart (like those people who are like :sigh: you moron, you'll never be as smart/sophisticated/whatever as me)
- someone who likes to try new things
- compassionate
- someone who likes to cuddle :love:
- a good kisser :combust:
- someone who is funny
- someone who is passionate something, anything.

gonna have to steal two of daygloeyes2's:
- the bear hugs they give.
- the way they're able to make you feel like you're the only girl in the room when they're staring at you.
 
Intelligent
Compulsive reader
Patient
Manners (and oh how many people are so fucking rude)
Deep voice
Long hands
Long, dark hair
Enthusiastic smile, the kind that lights up the room
Kind, generous, humorous, likes nature and being outdoors (and not just to kick hell out of a football)
 
Intelligent
Beautiful (thin, no short hair)
Sexy
Spiritual
Inspiring
Romantical
Wild
Sensitive
Funny
True
Charming Freak

who actually has a heart and knows what she wants.

Interests in music or politics are good, but not an overwhelming necessity, I ´m also interested in other topics, a molecular biologist can make an interesting discussion partner too. Interested in travelling is a must.
 
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