MirrorballLemon
The Fly
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- Sep 2, 2005
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- 174
ok, so my girlfriend and I have been together a few months now, and its a long distance relationship...she lives about 4 hours away. I'm busy b/c I have a full time job and she is part of a sorority at her school, and she lives on campus. The thing about her is that she's really into this sorority. It consumes her life. i never got into the frat thing at college, so I'm not big on it, but I wont tell her what to do. The thing is, alot of times it really seems like that if the conversation we're having isnt sorority/fraternity/party related, then its like she doesnt care. It's in one ear and out the other. Also, she insists on remaining friends with one of her ex's, but she stays out with this guy until literally all hours of the morning, something which I'm not fond of at all. and I know if I told her to stop, she'd say "fuck you" and just keep on doing it. Anyways, this past week was really rough. alot of stuff going on at work, and a huge, huge family issue arose. My mom is sick and needs major surgery. Obviously I'm really, really worried, and also really upset. So this past week I've obviously been kind of out of it, so she's been avoiding me. So I call her today to talk, because I just really need someone to talk to about all this, and I'd go to her before anyone else, and she's like "you know, I don't really want to talk to you because 1) I'm getting ready to go to a party and 2) Im avoiding you because i dont want you being like that towards me" she literally says this to me. so I'm like "well im sorry this all means nothing to you, but its very important to me, and I was hoping we could talk" and she says "well, one of my (sorority) sisters is here. bye" and hangs up. So now she's at a party, probably with her ex, i dont know, and shes not talking to me. did I do something wrong here?