LikeNoOneBefore
Refugee
Oh man. I forgot. I'm one of those old-fashioned teens who is saving sex for marriage.
Smallville said:Sex is a common thing now for 12 year olds, it's scary! This country is not what it used to be.
Smallville said:Sex is a common thing now for 12 year olds, it's scary! This country is not what it used to be.
Lila64 said:
Not any of the 12 year olds I know (my daughter included!)
Hope things go smoothly for you & your sister Fitz. I'll be sending my daughter to you next
Actually, they saw some films in class this week, and she discussed a little of it with me in the car the other day. I didn't know what to say or ask, but she was just telling me about the boys/girls and the sperm fertilizing the egg,... I'm so not ready for this.
LikeNoOneBefore said:Pfft try not having a boyfriend for nearly two years and about to be a senior in high school!
LemonMacPhisto said:
phillyfan26 said:
Pffffffft try not ever having had a girlfriend.
Oh wait, that's not really that funny.
martha said:
I don't get it.
martha said:
I don't get it.
sami0201 said:I didn't want to start a whole new thread about this, but it's not really contributing to the topic of this thread... so mods if you want to move it go ahead!
I have a personal question, or not really question but I just want opinions...I know it's completely up to me whether I want to have sex or not and I probably won't but I kind of want to. I was with a guy for a while in the winter...nothing specific happened, no fight or anything, we just mutually stopped seeing each other. Then he eventually got back with his ex but they broke up a few months ago for good. Now I'm kind of "hooking up" with him again. Not boyfriend/girlfriend (yet? but I don't really want that since I'm going to college in 2 weeks lol) but he is definitely a relationship person. I kind of want to have sex with him but kind of isn't enough. It's just that I know myself, and I know that I'm going to end up going to school and my first time is going to end up being with some random person or some new guy I meet. I know that sounds terrible but I know myself and that will probably end up happening. I kind of want to with him but I'm not on the pill, and I'm just scared! Not even of having sex but just of getting pregnant, etc. I've been thinking about it a lot lately and I just don't know what to do. He's not pressuring me in ANY way, it's just something that's been on my mind. And then I keep thinking I'd rather it be with him then with anyone else. But at the same time I'm not in love with him and I'm not exactly in a relationship with him. I know you guys aren't gonna tell me to go have sex but what are your opinions?
sami0201 said:I don't think I would have less self confidence, he is a good guy and he's not the kind of person who goes around having sex with random girls all the time. It's not like I would be another "notch on his belt" lol. He's really a relationship kind of person. I'm not rushing into anything, it's just something on my mind. Thanks for your advice!
Screwtape2 said:
Maybe you should start thinking about what you’d want your first time to be like.
Since you've waited this long, you may as well think about what YOU want. If this is what you want, then have fun and BE SAFE!