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ONE love, blood, life
I'm very close (I think) to getting coupled up with a guy I've been on-and-off with since the beginning of the summer. But there are a few problems. First, he's a few years older than me (he's 24, I'm 19). Second, he works at my college (no, this is not the weird guy from residence life). Third--and worst of all--he thinks that there's something "sweet and innocent" (direct quote) about me and he's scared he'll break my heart or something.
We've tried to date a few times, but it keeps falling through. The other day we were talking and we ended up just sort of holding each other for a long time. He came to see me at my work the next day and the same thing happened. Here's the thing: I'm going away for a few days next week and I don't want to go away with this being unresolved (it's a service trip and I don't want to be distracted with romantic matters). I want to be able to really talk about all this first. I need him to tell me one way or the other what he wants to do. I need an answer.
Can I get one? Should I get one? What's the best way to go about this?
We've tried to date a few times, but it keeps falling through. The other day we were talking and we ended up just sort of holding each other for a long time. He came to see me at my work the next day and the same thing happened. Here's the thing: I'm going away for a few days next week and I don't want to go away with this being unresolved (it's a service trip and I don't want to be distracted with romantic matters). I want to be able to really talk about all this first. I need him to tell me one way or the other what he wants to do. I need an answer.
Can I get one? Should I get one? What's the best way to go about this?