Max_theHitman said:
90% of my friends are married. They all wish to be in my shoes. I´m still single and enjoying life to the MAXimum
But being the oldest in my family (and only child) and having everyone else (cousins) married with kids, I better start thinking of marriage and having a few kids too, to settle down and build a house with a white-picket fence...
... when I get to be 50 , that is
I don't get it
why do people get married and then talk and act like that?
It's such bull. I mean, really. Why get involved if all you're going to do is complain, and (so typical) want what you don't have? People need to seriously grow up.
I mean, don't they understand that part of it is sacrifice?
Or that their life is supposed to change?
I'm really worried, because I don't know about myself. I wonder if, (more so on a deeper level than what I have spoken abuot online), if I can find someone who feels the same way I do, the same "expectations", or the same beliefs, etc. It's a fine line between compromising, and being dishonest with yourself. I know compromise is important, and I'm willing to give it my best efforts. But......
I don't know, and I guess this is from being around young people (well, my age peers), but, I don't know many people who really want it the way I do.
I mean, when in one of my classes -
when the teacher asked "how many of you (males) do you think will be present if/when your child is born?" (as in, how many would be "in the room" when it's happening.)
I was the only guy who raised my hand. At that point, I thought maybe I was too overzealous about things or something. But I was surprised, too.
I don't mean to talk about myself so much, but.... this is a subject which muddles me greatly, and I feel... "different" and I can't tell if it is a good thing or a bad thing.