that's a plus. that addition. you CAN look at it either way (relationship or n. ire). if you look at it from the n. ire. position it makes the song better a thousand fold. because it DOES give that personal element. like, this war (if you could have even called it that) was personal. lovers, the most intimate of relationships stealing from one another and from others...i don't know, i've always taken that part as the deepest cut in the song like....a big bitchslap in the face of everyone who bought into the protestant/catholic hateage bullshit.