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girlhappy 09-03-2005 02:39 AM

Question of soulmates
 
Hay!
I just got back from the vacation. Just wanted to greet each and every one of you. I was away for a month, lived in a village, was in relationship with a village man.....and have a question.
Just before i left, i was broken because i was in love with my so called soulmate who is soulmate just because his sense of beuty and art. My question is: what makes one the soulmate?
What exactly does it mean? I thought i knew, but now...After my adventure-relationship with a simple village man who has tenderness, childish-like soul(Innocence is stronger than..):
but nothing deep really to talk about ..i wonder..... I dont think i can share my toughts and my inner life with him, but still... he makes me laugh, he is more bright, and "healthy" in a way. So, after all those false soulmates who just broke my heart(never really were real part of my life), i am not so sure what is most important in relationship. i never had real relationship, but i thought i can feel it somehow. Can i?

hiphop 09-03-2005 05:03 AM

Woody Allen vs. Robinson?

I can´t help it, but "simple village man", more "healthy" in a way makes me :lmao:

I don´t know if you can feel it somehow :D

girlhappy 09-03-2005 07:05 AM

Why are you thinking that village man is not worh enough???

hiphop 09-03-2005 07:34 AM

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Originally posted by girlhappy
Why are you thinking that village man is not worh enough???
I think village man is cool :D

Just don´t really get the problem, as to who is soulmate and why you can´t be soulmate with lots of people while seducing village man :shifty:

:cool:

girlhappy 09-03-2005 08:11 AM

O.k. maybe because i want to have the whole person:)

the soul waits 09-03-2005 09:43 AM

I don't really have any coherent advice here, girl, just go by your heart and gutfeeling :up:

hiphop 09-03-2005 12:43 PM

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Originally posted by the soul waits
I don't really have any coherent advice here, girl, just go by your heart and gutfeeling :up:
right.

hi soulmate :heart:

the soul waits 09-03-2005 02:24 PM

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Originally posted by whenhiphopdrovethebigcars


right.

hi soulmate :heart:

Silly white boy :flirt:


Girlhappy, after having given this some more thought and because I posted to you in your previous posts about your friend who you were in love with...I'd just like to say that, well, I don't know if it's necessary to be on the lookout for a "soulmate" as such - I don't know what that means exactly, I think you just feel it when you encounter it and it can be anyone - a relative, a friend, a lover, a parent...who knows what "the soul" really is, anyway?

It sounds to me (going by your previous posts and now this one) that you're searching for/or want your future partner to be someone who really connects with you on a deeper level, emotionally? Correct me if I'm wrong.
So, it could be that the people you meet at this point in your life are touchstones to explore your own heart and soul more? And not necessarily people you are supposed to build someting lasting with?
I mean, if you're asking yourself-and us-these questions, I think that right there is you answer - because if it's the real thing, you just know.

It's not a bad thing if you don't feel it and question yourself at all though : these are great opportunities to turn inward and see what this encounter learns you, it enrichenns you and you can go on from there.

I don't know if I'm making sense, tell me if I'm not, ok?

:hug:

the soul waits 09-03-2005 02:28 PM

Oh and I wanted to add :
Maybe a "simple village-man" as you put it, was exactly what you needed right now for some comfort and warmth, nothing more nothing less. just try to find your own landing ground on which you stand no matter what.

hiphop 09-03-2005 02:52 PM

Yeah I also like the village man. :up:

Carek1230 09-03-2005 03:10 PM

The term "soul mate" is a difficult one to describe in words, it's more about feelings.....if and when you meet that person, THE person you will know it in your heart, your soul and your entire Being. I've been there then lost mine. I don't know if another will come along. The feeling, tho, is pure heaven. :)

For Honor 09-03-2005 07:50 PM

https://www.certuspersonality.com/comptxt/wstsin.htm


If you want to find a "definition", then look at that, and see what you are best for. heh...


Soulmate?

my interpretation: there are two things to it


a - - - - - first and formoest........ a soulmate is someone who honestly, and sincerely wants to make a commitment with you. A soulmate is a bonding of souls, where you and another act and live as one. It's not about you, its about the couple

b - - - - - some people, like in the link above, are psychologically better for each other than other people. Some people have natural inclinations, tendancies. And regardless of what any zodiac or other hocuspocus stuff says......... people are different in how they are made up.

Different but the same.

Aren't all the petals of a certain flower unique? Yes, but that are all petals of a florwer, the same flower. People are the same way.


but some people get along better than others, because of "how they work"


a pair of soulmates, I believe, do not neccesarily have to work the same way, but should be able to maintain and promote a balance, that is mutually benificial.




the soul need beauty for a soulmate
when the soul wants, the soul waits


I agree with bono on this, because that is how I feel about love, etc. But that's not the same for everyone. If you want to look at zodiac stuff, well, Bono and I are both born in May, (10 and 6, respectively), so that means we are both Taurus. Go figure. But those lines from that song are very...... symbolic, representative

of "how people work", so to say....

I may get into this more later on

girlhappy 09-04-2005 01:16 AM

Thank you all, and Soul waits, i understand .Yes, what i have learned this summer is: there is beauty in every person, and people and things can suprise you. Village man is obviously someone who has something i can connect with, and he is bright and hard working.You remember my unfortunate soumate-friend with great sense of beauty,and who, i thought, is connected with me on deepest level. maybe he is, but , if he is not ready to commit like For HONor says, what is the point? I think he is angry no matter what because he knows about my "boyfriend", but i just wanted to cut all this pain between us, and wrote something very cold. I dont know, still, i dream about him every night. I am afraid that he might call and all feelings will come back to me. I am running away, to tell the truth.

Palace_Hero 09-04-2005 09:42 AM

Soulmates do not exist in my opinion. It is just idealistic tosh.

People are just people, some gel better than others. But soulmates? No.

For Honor 09-04-2005 03:19 PM

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Originally posted by Palace_Hero
Soulmates do not exist in my opinion. It is just idealistic tosh.

People are just people, some gel better than others. But soulmates? No.


I won't disagree with you.


Getting more in depth in my opinions........


soul mates don't exist unless you believe they do. And really, more so, they don't exist unless you and your 'soulmate' believe they do.

Palace_Hero 09-04-2005 07:40 PM

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Originally posted by For Honor



I won't disagree with you.


Getting more in depth in my opinions........


soul mates don't exist unless you believe they do. And really, more so, they don't exist unless you and your 'soulmate' believe they do.

Yeah it is like faith for me in that respect. Its real for the people who believe in their religion (within reason), but I still think there is no such thing.

For Honor 09-05-2005 03:40 AM

^ :) that's what I was going to get into next.

I agree on your view 100% Palace Hero.

Though I am not definite on where I stand religiously, quite yet. But I share that same mentality.

girlhappy 09-05-2005 11:48 PM

What about Bono and Ali? If they are not soulmates......

blueeyedgirl 09-06-2005 02:12 AM

I would agree they are something quite different from the norm. But then see Edge's and Adam's experiences....

hiphop 09-06-2005 02:17 AM

I have some soulmates. According to my definition, a soulmate is a person whose soul is near to mine. This can also be a very good friend. Sure it is great when your lover/girlfriend/wife also is a soulmate, but generally I have this universal feeling that I am soulmate with animals and flowers and the wind and the sea.

Om shanti.


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