I haven't read through this whole thread and I'm on my phone right now. But I just wanted to say that this is a person why was certainly abused as a child, and deserves a little sympathy. But he spent most of his adulthood building a private fantasyland for himself, as well as spending god knows how much altering his face, body, and skin color, for which there is no excuse, and which personally I find insulting to his black heritage.
The guy could have spent his time and money trying to make the world a better place (imagine what he could have accomplished in Africa, for example). Instead he just retreated further and further into his own delusions. That anyone would worship this guy, or think of him as a role model disturbs me. He represents everything wrong with child stars, frivolous spending, bad parenting, arrested development, etc. And that doesnt include the TWO incidents of being accused of child molestation. Yes, he was acquitted, but they found books of nude children, he admitted to having slumber parties with kids, and supposedly witnesses were threatened and bullied...plus he settled out of court for an exorbitant amount. So I don't think the guy is innocent.
A handful of catchy songs doesn't stack up too well against all the bad stuff. A John Lennon-level tragedy this ain't, and not much of a loss to the music world either. He's been irrelevant for over 15 years.