corianderstem
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Hey, I finally had something productive to say in FYM!
corianderstem said:Why does having to explain what a "vagina" is mean that you would have to have the big Sex Discussion? Couldn't you just say "it's the most important part of a woman's body"?
indra said:
Do you really believe that all of the rest of us in this thread have no modesty, class and decorum because we can say the word vagina and not feel it's inappropriate?
indra said:
I've also been wondering something else -- a while back there was a thread on asexuality and you commented that according to the website on asexuality mentioned in the initial post you would be asexual. Do you think your lack of interest in sex is part of the reason you are uncomfortable with this play and the word vagina? Do you think that this lack of interest in sex makes you more uncomfortable with the possibility of discussing sex with your child? I don't mean to be rude, but wouldn't you discussing sex be a bit like a priest discussing marriage so that would be why you don't feel comfortable doing it?
indra said:I ask this in all seriousness. I mean you've commented several times that you are of a generation that values "modesty, class and decorum" but in this thread are several of us within that same generation and although most of us are more liberal than you,
indra said:I suspect none of us are major swingers or kink-meisters (well maybe just a little ), and we certainly don't seem to have the same problem with the word or with the prospect of discussing sex with children.
Originally posted by corianderstem, corrected by U2Man
Why does having to explain what a "vagina" is mean that you would have to have the big Sex Discussion? Couldn't you just say "it's the most important part of a woman's body"?
corianderstem said:Hey, I finally had something productive to say in FYM!
corianderstem said:
I'm sorry, no. My brain is the most important part of my body, thanks very much.
U2Man said:
thats not what they taught me in school.
80sU2isBest said:it would be very difficult for me to discuss sex with them.
martha said:
And this is why I have to do it in school and why many people who find it "difficult" don't sign the permission slip.
And why we still have a high teen pregnancy rate in the US.
corianderstem said:
Well, if that's what they're teaching in school, no wonder there are still too many people who think that way.
And thanks, 80sU2.
80sU2isBest said:
Still, I do find humor in the fact that you are blaming me for the high teen pregnancy rate, specially considering that Hollywood constantly bombards our kids with movies, tv shows and advertisements that promote sex as if it were "no big deal".
80sU2isBest said:
Still, I do find humor in the fact that you are blaming me for the high teen pregnancy rate, specially considering that Hollywood constantly bombards our kids with movies, tv shows and advertisements that promote sex as if it were "no big deal".
martha said:
To paraphrase you, go back and reread what I said. I didn't say you were responsible for the high teen preganancy rate. I was blaming reluctant, uptight parents in general. If you feel that shoe fits you, go ahead and wear it proudly.
martha said:I give up.
martha said:Be as repressed and "classy" as you want. (1) There's still nothing wrong with children knowing the proper words for body parts. There's nothing wrong with tastefully done art that respectfully uses the correct terms for actual body parts.
80sU2isBest said:Which means that you realize that the way you worded what you wrote does indeed look like you were blaming me?
martha said:
No. It's pointless discussing anything with you.
80sU2isBest said:
I gurantee you that not most, but every single one of you, is more liberal than me. Geoge Bush is more liberal than me. Believe me, though, that most of the people I know are also very conservative, and everyone of them would be uncomfortable with these things.
I don't have a problem with the word. I just don't think it's appropriate for public display unless it serves some sort of health or medical purpose. But you're right, that if I were to have kids (I'd probably have to adopt ), it would be very difficult for me to discuss sex with them.
...and sad at the same time.BonoVoxSupastar said:this thread is funny.
Rono said:...and sad at the same time.
I think people who are afraid for the word vagina,..are afraid for their own sexuality and project it on the children.
BonoVoxSupastar said:this thread is funny.
BonoVoxSupastar said:I was talking about this story to a friend of mine tonight and he reminded me of a guy we went to high school with...
To say this guy was sheltered would be an understatement, I felt sorry for this guy, his parents were constantly writing excuse letters anytime we had a sex talk or body part talk in school. The boy was 17 and still refering to his penis as his "sacred part".
At our 10 year reunion the guy was divorced twice with 2 children with 2 diffierent wives... He had no clue about birth control, he married to have sex, and still can't talk about any of it.