BluberryPoptart
War Child
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Another thing, not everyone whose birth control 'fails' gets an abortion, either. I have known several people who laughed it off and welcomed the baby anyway. So considering how rare all those extreme cases are, I do believe most who choose abortion and keep those clinics in business were not careful or responsible with their birth control, or are using it for birth control! Being a woman myself I cannnot condone such action, and certainly have -0 sympathy for anyone but the child.
YES I DO blame the guy too! Guys have an equal part in birth control, if he's going to screw around, keep it under cover or pay for the next 18 years!!
Sorry, but it is a fact that a lot of girls lie to a guy about whether or not they took a pill, so it's not always his fault. I also have seen guys take more responsibilty than girls! I PERSONALLY know 3 cases where the guy found out a girl was in an abortion clinic and rushed to take her out in time to save the child! In all those cases, the girl hadn't even told the guy she was pregnant! It's his child too! Let him be a part of any 'choice.' I also know one guy who took the baby to raise as a single father after the girl said she didn't want it!
YES I DO blame the guy too! Guys have an equal part in birth control, if he's going to screw around, keep it under cover or pay for the next 18 years!!
Sorry, but it is a fact that a lot of girls lie to a guy about whether or not they took a pill, so it's not always his fault. I also have seen guys take more responsibilty than girls! I PERSONALLY know 3 cases where the guy found out a girl was in an abortion clinic and rushed to take her out in time to save the child! In all those cases, the girl hadn't even told the guy she was pregnant! It's his child too! Let him be a part of any 'choice.' I also know one guy who took the baby to raise as a single father after the girl said she didn't want it!
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