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Old 01-31-2002, 10:33 AM   #41
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All this agreeing with me is frightening.
Don't get too used to it, bub.
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Old 01-31-2002, 08:57 PM   #42
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For me it's not the same thing, I believe in the sacrament of marriage, and so waiting for such a pivotal point shows true devotion and a mutual vow to to love "for better, for worse." But I understand that not everyone holds this belief in marriage, and in such a case, monogamy is definitely worth respect. That's just my point of view though!
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Old 02-01-2002, 10:32 AM   #43
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Everyone who is or has waited til marriage- Is it the same thing to be a virgin but have sex with the man/woman you end up marrying, only later on? Ie one partner, but premarital? When I look at people like that, I think it kind of cancels out the whole marriage thing, unless its for religious reasons. Surely in this instance in doesn't matter whether its before or after "I do".
By definition, that would still be sex outside the confines of marrage. Even if they never had sex with anyone else, it would still be against my beliefs.
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How about 'Saving oneself "from" Marriage'.
Hey I like that...
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Old 02-01-2002, 10:01 PM   #45
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I've had so many people tell me that not having sex until you're married is stupid because you need to "try out the goods first so you don't get stuck with a dud forever"...

I disagree.

Some things...no...MOST things...are more important than sex.

I agree...besides, sex starts in the head, not the bed, so any "dud" can be changed.



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Old 02-02-2002, 03:50 AM   #46
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I've had so many people tell me that not having sex until you're married is stupid because you need to "try out the goods first so you don't get stuck with a dud forever"...

I disagree.

Some things...no...MOST things...are more important than sex.

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