My Godfather is dying..... blah - Page 2

SicilianGoddess · 10-13-2001, 04:55 PM

Thanks for your hugs guys.

I saw him today.. it was pretty bad. He doesnt have much longer. Then I listened to ATYCLB and the songs just seemed to fit the situation.

Pretty depressing.

(((( HUGS THE ROOM ))))

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tiny dancer · 10-13-2001, 10:54 PM

Spicy, I am sorry to hear about your Grandfather. I know when my father died 3 years ago I did not know how I was going to get through the funeral. It was through my family that I got by. Yours will be there for you. Try to think of all the happy times that you had with your grandfather. My thoughts and prayers got out to you.

Like O2 · 10-14-2001, 12:15 AM

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Originally posted by SicilianGoddess:

I saw him today.. it was pretty bad.

Aw, sorry sweetie. (((more hugs for you)))

SicilianGoddess · 10-15-2001, 09:02 PM

Well.. he passed Sunday. It was good, he was in pain and all. They want me to be a pallbearer. Eek. Never done this before. Plus dunno if my skinny ass can lift a coffin. What exactly am I going to be doing?

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U2girl · 10-16-2001, 04:46 AM

*hugs*
well, for what it's worth, i think after someone dies, he/she lives on in a way in your heart, in your fond memories of him. the bond between you and that person can not be erased by death.

Hewson · 10-16-2001, 01:28 PM

Sorry to hear he passed so quickly.
I've never been a pallbearer, the only duty I know of is of course carrying the casket. Usually nowadays there are 6 in all, so likley your slender behind will be able to handle your part.
Just had a close friend's father pass Monday AM, so I'll be doing the funeral thing Friday, never fun, but always keep the best memories in the forefront.

10-13-2001, 04:55 PM	#21
SicilianGoddess Rock n' Roll Doggie Band-aid Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Smiley Land ? Posts: 4,462 Local Time: 03:26 PM	Thanks for your hugs guys. I saw him today.. it was pretty bad. He doesnt have much longer. Then I listened to ATYCLB and the songs just seemed to fit the situation. Pretty depressing. (((( HUGS THE ROOM )))) ------------------ Some Days Are Slippy, Other Days Are Sloppy Sicy's Website __________________

10-13-2001, 10:54 PM	#22
tiny dancer Blue Crack Distributor Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: small town Pennsylvania, USA Posts: 96,451 Local Time: 10:26 PM	Spicy, I am sorry to hear about your Grandfather. I know when my father died 3 years ago I did not know how I was going to get through the funeral. It was through my family that I got by. Yours will be there for you. Try to think of all the happy times that you had with your grandfather. My thoughts and prayers got out to you. __________________

10-16-2001, 01:28 PM	#26
Hewson Blue Crack Supplier Join Date: Feb 2001 Location: Your own private Idaho Posts: 30,938 Local Time: 05:26 PM	Sorry to hear he passed so quickly. I've never been a pallbearer, the only duty I know of is of course carrying the casket. Usually nowadays there are 6 in all, so likley your slender behind will be able to handle your part. Just had a close friend's father pass Monday AM, so I'll be doing the funeral thing Friday, never fun, but always keep the best memories in the forefront. __________________

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10-15-2001, 09:02 PM	#24
SicilianGoddess Rock n' Roll Doggie Band-aid Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Smiley Land ? Posts: 4,462 Local Time: 03:26 PM	Well.. he passed Sunday. It was good, he was in pain and all. They want me to be a pallbearer. Eek. Never done this before. Plus dunno if my skinny ass can lift a coffin. What exactly am I going to be doing? ------------------ Some Days Are Slippy, Other Days Are Sloppy Sicy's Website

10-16-2001, 04:46 AM	#25
U2girl Blue Crack Addict Join Date: Sep 2000 Location: slovenija Posts: 21,054 Local Time: 11:26 PM	hugs well, for what it's worth, i think after someone dies, he/she lives on in a way in your heart, in your fond memories of him. the bond between you and that person can not be erased by death.