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This might be the first thread ever that could be said to skirt the territories of both FYM and Zoo Confessionals.
I've been arguing with my mom a lot lately, which makes me sad all by itself because my mom and I have historically been pretty tight. What makes it worse, though, is that we've been venturing into the political realm and my mom and I don't see eye-to-eye on almost anything anymore.
It just happened tonight, although it was probably brewing for a few days (she caught me opening my mail from Amnesty and I had to explain to her that Amnesty is not in the business of trying to free serial killers from prison). I don't even remember how it started, but we got into this argument about Bush (again). She HATES that I don't like him. I'm not sure why. I don't trash the man personally, as you FYMers know; I just don't like the job he's doing. And it escalated into this discussion of politics and stuff, and I tried to change the subject but she wouldn't let me.
None of this would bother me if she didn't start asking me about things like freedom of speech and if I think people have the right to, say, burn the flag. And I had to say that while I would not personally burn a flag and I think it's a dumb thing to do, people do have the right to do it. And then she got all pissed and was saying that I was disrespecting veterans and that she raised me better than that. It didn't matter to her that I have NEVER burned a flag, have never attended a flag burning, I buy poppies on Memorial Day...whatever, she wasn't hearing it.
I guess maybe what I'm getting at is this: do any of you have beliefs very different from those of their parents? How do you handle it? Do you just not bring it up? (I'd try this tack but my family REALLY knows how to push my buttons.) And do any of your parents take it personally that you have different beliefs?
And I guess on some level I do want to know: *is* this disrespectful to my mom and my family somehow?
I've been arguing with my mom a lot lately, which makes me sad all by itself because my mom and I have historically been pretty tight. What makes it worse, though, is that we've been venturing into the political realm and my mom and I don't see eye-to-eye on almost anything anymore.
It just happened tonight, although it was probably brewing for a few days (she caught me opening my mail from Amnesty and I had to explain to her that Amnesty is not in the business of trying to free serial killers from prison). I don't even remember how it started, but we got into this argument about Bush (again). She HATES that I don't like him. I'm not sure why. I don't trash the man personally, as you FYMers know; I just don't like the job he's doing. And it escalated into this discussion of politics and stuff, and I tried to change the subject but she wouldn't let me.
None of this would bother me if she didn't start asking me about things like freedom of speech and if I think people have the right to, say, burn the flag. And I had to say that while I would not personally burn a flag and I think it's a dumb thing to do, people do have the right to do it. And then she got all pissed and was saying that I was disrespecting veterans and that she raised me better than that. It didn't matter to her that I have NEVER burned a flag, have never attended a flag burning, I buy poppies on Memorial Day...whatever, she wasn't hearing it.
I guess maybe what I'm getting at is this: do any of you have beliefs very different from those of their parents? How do you handle it? Do you just not bring it up? (I'd try this tack but my family REALLY knows how to push my buttons.) And do any of your parents take it personally that you have different beliefs?
And I guess on some level I do want to know: *is* this disrespectful to my mom and my family somehow?